Now is the time to discover the one who will submit to me.

There are many ‘submissives’ on this site most of whom do not have a clue as to what submission involves.

Before approaching me, ask yourself some questions.

1)      Am I looking to truly submit to this man, or am I looking for kinky sex?

2)      What am I willing to do for the one I submit to?

3)      As a submissive, what do I need for fulfillment?

As a submissive, your ultimate goal is to bring pleasure to your Dominant. This pleasure can come in several forms, from the mundane to exotic.  Some Dominants find pleasure through sex, some through intellectual stimulation, some are simply pleased and derive pleasure from having a scantily clad lady sit next to him and watch the movie while others expect their submissive to bring them a beer whenever the big game begins. Others find pleasure in bringing sever pain to a woman.

Now, I neither drink and watch a lot of sports, nor derive pleasure from the pain others suffer. But I do enjoy seeing a person in stiletto heels, or wearing sexy clothes.

But to me, and from what I have learned over the years, the idea of submission is more a state of mind than simply being a doormat for a person. Both Dominants and submissives have needs that are mutually fulfilled in a D/s relationship.

To give an example, perhaps the Dominant person wishes for you to do something that you do not like, or are revolted by. But submission is not in performing the task, but instead the submission and the joy of that submission comes from the fact that in doing this disagreeable task brings, the one you submit to, a great deal of pleasure. If you are a true submissive, and have a servant’s heart, no matter the task, you will find the pleasure in the service.

This is the person I am looking for, the one with a servant’s heart and a desire to please.

A further thought, in case you are thinking that I am a person who is only looking for someone to use. As I said, the needs are mutually fulfilled. As a Dominant, I am obligated to care for you and see that you find satisfaction to the best of my abilities.

Submission to another is a precious gift that should be cherished, and not abused.

If you find, after reading this, that you are interested, drop me a few lines.

I wonder if I should ask for a tribute. After all, 99% of the female Dominants on this site ask for one. LOL