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A FEW HELPFUL GUIDELINES to help us get off on the right foot. Thats why were here, right? I will not respond to one word messages or messages that are one-line inanities like how are you?. If you like my profile, terrific. Thats great. Send me a message that has to do with something I wrote. Engage me in conversation. That is the only way you are going to hear back from me. The foundation of any relationship with me will be communication, intelligence and capacity. You simply stop everything dead when you send me a pointless message that says nothing about either one of us. Also, sending me a message that is overly sexual right out of the gate or reductive and fetishizing will get your message deleted. Lets make a connection. **I do not play online. I have zero interest in IMing, camming, etc. None.** Also, location is very important. Please be local to me. ALSO, just be yourself. I am looking to connect with a human person. If we have a connection, the Ds will come. If we dont, it wont, no matter how many times you capitalize the word Me. Until we are in a dynamic, we do not have a dynamic. I dont owe you deference because I am submissive until I am YOUR submissive. If you are married, I am not your girl. FINALLY, this is real life for me. If the bulk of your exposure to the lifestyle is from online chat rooms, porn and fantasy, we are not going to get along. Real life BDSM is entirely different than porn.

Im looking for a nice, age-appropriate person to tie me up, flog me, torment me creatively, occasionally punish me and have an otherwise pleasant relationship. I am looking for someone unthreatened by a strong, confident woman, and who understands that some strong, confident women like to leave all of that at the door and surrender.

I would be open to a play relationship morphing into a more permanent Ds based relationship. Any ongoing long-term relationship I enter into will have to be predicated on a Ds foundation.

I am extremely experienced. I know what healthy BDSM is, and that is what I am looking for. The submission that we both ultimately seek from me is something that only comes with trust and that trust can only be grounded in mutual respect. I have to think youre intelligent, successful and genuine before I can surrender myself, so you need to be reasonable in your self-assessment. I am active on the main Fet type site which has many photos of me.

I love rope, leather and chain bondage, moderate pain, flogging, gags, sensory deprivation, predicament bondage, caging, and toys.
If we are a good fit in those areas, I would certainly be willing to move into a Ds dynamic. If youre interested, I look forward to hearing from you.


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LoveUNTILweBLEED
 
 Age: 31
 VA beach, Virginia