I am a Dominant male living is a vanilla world.

To be right upfront I am married to a vanilla woman and am not going to change my wife or break up my marriage. No, she doesn't know and can't know. Discretion is required.

You may be in the same situation with your husband; if so, let's talk. Unicorns don't cross paths often.

I relish spending time (including chat) with a woman who isn't even sure if she is really a sub.

If you are new and nobody has told you yet - in most D/s relationships the sub ultimately is in control of their submission. It is a gift that you may choose to place in the hands of a Dom. If the Dom abuses that gift you can (and should) move on to somebody who will appreciate you and won't abuse it.

A "good" Dom will find your limits (that's usually where the passion is), respect them, expand them, and care for you.

May 23, 2016

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
97% Dominant
95% Rigger
88% Master/Mistress
83% Degrader
82% Brat tamer
81% Sadist
78% Owner
77% Primal (Hunter)
76% Daddy/Mommy
71% Experimentalist
54% Voyeur
52% Ageplayer
47% Vanilla
30% Non-monogamist
29% Exhibitionist
27% Switch
16% Masochist
13% Rope bunny
12% Brat
9% Girl/Boy
8% Primal (Prey)
8% Degradee
7% Submissive
3% Slave
2% Pet