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Cuckolded4You
Hetero Male, 46, Midlands, United Kingdom 
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 Midlands

 United Kingdom

 Willing to Relocate

 5' 10"

 170 lbs

 46

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 01/25/23

Thank You for taking the time to read this profile. i have reached a pivotal point in my life, where i know that i will only ever find true fulfilment by being privileged enough to live my life as a cuckolded slave to a dominant Woman.



its not about kinks, its about service, about worship, and about total dedication to the needs, wants and desires of the Woman to whom i belong. I understand, accept and embrace my submissive nature, and know that to serve without question will make me full of pride, knowing that She who owns me is fulfilling Her desires with my complete support, obedience and dedication. Accepting and embracing of the humiliation that may be part of that is also my destiny, to live by Your rules, always.



Right now i am in the UK but my profession means that i am relocatable anywhere and will go to the ends of the earth to find Her.



SONNET 57
Being your slave, what should I do but tendUpon the hours and times of your desire?I have no precious time* at all to spend,Nor services to do, till you require.Nor dare I chide the world-without-end hourWhilst I, my sovereign, watch the clock for you,Nor think the bitterness of absence sourWhen you have bid your servant once adieuNor dare I question with my jealous thoughtWhere you may be, or your affairs suppose,But, like a sad slave, stay and think of noughtSave, where you are how happy you make those.So true a fool is love that in your will,Though you do any thing, he thinks no ill.
7/5/2016 11:49:27 PM: The Power of Cuckolding Cuckolding has a close and powerful association with female-led relationships. Cuckolding is, after all, a wife's assertion of her sexual freedom with partners other than her husband. (I'm using 'wife' and 'husband' to include non-married couples in committed relationships.) Her husband is aware of her sexual adventures but remains faithful to her, placing him in a subordinate position. A whole literature has grown up around cuckolding. A central theme is the humiliation experienced by the cuckold. Cuckolds report that seeing their wives with their lovers sends them instantly into 'subspace.' There are many fictional or semi-fictional accounts of cuckolds serving drinks to their wife and her lover, providing oral service to the wife and/or wife's lover after they have completed their lovemaking, and so on. Often there is a rather distasteful racial component to cuckolding accounts, featuring well-endowed African-American 'bulls,' very white wives and wimpy cuckolds. The cuckolding literature seems unusually fevered, even by Internet standards. Cuckolding clearly taps into primal emotions and fears that play well in Dominant/submissive settings. Yet, cuckolding in this traditional sense gets its power from outmoded patriarchal and racial stereotypes. The shame the cuckold feels, for example, is based on the notion that a strong man should not lose control of his property, namely, his wife. The shock of a married woman exploring her sexuality with other partners while her husband remains monogamous is because traditionally men were much freer to engage in extra-marital affairs than their wives. The trope of black bulls with superior cocks ravishing white women is straight out of the Bull Connor school of Southern erotic literature. Female-led relationships upend these stereotypes and this begs the question--what role does cuckolding play in female-led relationships. I believe that in female-led relationships the female partner has the inherent authority to take on other lovers while her male partner remains pledged exclusively to her. While this is cuckolding as a technical matter, there can be far less humiliation and shame than with traditional cuckolding. This is because the notion of the woman as a free sexual creature is a given in female-led relationships. To put it another way, the cuckolded man in a female led relationship loses nothing because his female partner's fidelity was never his to own and control in the first place. Cuckolding thus need not be such a potent source of shame and humiliation. This is not to say that cuckolding no longer poses emotional challenges in female led relationships. And this is not to say that couples may well chose to explore in word and deed the kinds of humiliation and transgressive eroticism associated with classical cuckoldry. But in female-led relationships cuckolding can also be expressed as a much less emotionally charged Monogamus/Polyamorous relationship, where the wife is polyamorous and her subordinate husband remains monogamous. Cuckolding In Female-Led Relationships Couples in female-led relationships have the freedom to find the most comfortable place for themselves on the spectrum that runs from the wild power of classical cuckolding to the less emotionally jarring Mono/Poly approach to no cuckolding at all. In a female-led relationship it is up to the wife to point the way to the most suitable place on that spectrum for the couple. For some couples, this might be a situation where the husband is held in long-term chastity, has limited access to his wife's body, and finds himself raising another man's child. For others, it may be enough for the wife to playfully note on occasion that she is free to 'cheat' while her husband must remain faithful to her, even though the wife never moves beyond flirting with potential partners. Here are some cuckolding tips for males in female-led relationships to help them and their partners find the right place on that spectrum. 1. Cuckolding Is for Her As reflected in the literature, all to often cuckolding is the product of male fantasy and the wife's interests and well-being are secondary, if considered at all. Many times it seems like the husband all but pimps his wife so he can reap the voyeuristic thrills of watching her be ravished by another man. Using emotional blackmail to force one's partner into sex is hardly the stuff of female-led relationships. Instead, approach cuckolding slowly and gently. You must assume more chores and other responsibilities so she has the time and energy to even consider taking on other lovers. Commenting positively on her sensuality is important, as is stoking her erotic imagination by subtly encouraging to conjure up thoughts of other lovers. Respect her decision if she chooses not to seek a lover (or three). Her life may be full enough right now and she might not wish to further complicate things with a new relationship. She also may not be convinced that you can handle the emotional challenges associated with being a cuckold. So, do what you can to make it possible for her to cuckold you, make known your wish that she consider exercising her right to take on other lovers and respect her decision whatever it is. 2. Be sure you are ready Cuckolding changes everything about your relationship to your wife. Once a cuckold, always a cuckold. When she has crossed the threshold and no longer is your faithful wife you will have to deal with powerful feelings of jealousy and inadequacy. Consider carefully if you are ready to deal with these feelings before you encourage her to explore her erotic interests with other partners. Cuckolding solidifies your subordinate position. She has substantial erotic prerogatives that you do not have. Cuckolding also forces you to face the fact that you don't satisfy all of her needs/desires. You must be prepared to acknowledge that her outside interest may be a better and more exciting lover and romantic partner than you. After all, you are the guy who folds her socks and he is the playmate with whom she can let off steam. Is your relationship strong enough that she will compartmentalize her love life and still invest time and energy into maintaining and strengthening your relationship. Are you an attractive enough person and lover so that she will want you to continue as her primary partner. There is inherent risk that cuckolding will result in her leaving you and you must fully understand and weigh that risk against the benefits of cuckolding. So, imagine the strongest feelings of jealousy and inadequacy that you have felt with her. Multiply by 5. Can you handle it? 3. Support her in her journey Cuckolding is scary for her too. She may have spent years out of the dating game and feel ill-equipped to navigate her way. She may be self-conscious about her body and looks and have doubts about her sexual attractiveness. She may fear rejection. It's nerve-wracking to start dating again. What she doesn't need at this time is an emotionally demanding primary partner. You must do your best to deal with your fears on your own. Devote your energy to pumping up her ego and sense of sexual worth. Praise her beauty, compliment her on her loveliness, and let her know that you find her to be sexy and interesting. Reassure her that you will continue to support her in her journey and make good on that promise. As she begins dating, you must be emotionally present, someone she can rely upon. Don't pull back emotionally or physically. She needs your support, especially if a lover dumps her or someone spurns her advances. Do not get caught up in guessing games. If she makes passionate love with you right before or right after she visits a lover, don't torment her (or yourself) with questions such as 'is she making love to me and using me as a surrogate for her lover.' The truth is that women have ample reserves of erotic energy. Celebrate the generous share that she gives you rather than question its source. 4. Make it fun Cuckoldry can be great fun. Get involved in grooming her for her dates. Trimming her pubic hair, for example, can be a very strong submissive experience when you know that in a few hours another man will be enjoying the scenery. Help her choose clothes. Better yet, go shopping with her for some sexy clothes that she can wear on dates. Get her an anklet that she can wear on her right ankle to signal that she is a hot wife. Bathe her and then rub her down with perfumed oils before her dates. When she returns home, welcome her with open arms. Don't pry, but encourage her to describe her adventures. Hold and caress her, reassuring her that you love and support her and will always be there for her. In a wonderfully perverse way, cuckoldry can bring couples to a new level of intimacy. 5. Communicate Cuckolding is a wonderful opportunity to deepen a female-led relationship. Use the process to share your deepest feelings of love. Be clear in your feelings but be sensitive and supportive of her always. Listen, share and learn. Most of all, follow her lead. What's in Cuckolding for the Cuckold? Despite its risks, cuckolding is a powerful way for the submissive man to deepen his submissiveness and strengthen his female-led relationship. Think of cuckolding as the flip side of chastity. Chastity involves holding back the man's erotic energy for the benefit of his Superior. Cuckolding involves freeing the female partner to expand her erotic life. Chastity is more focused on the man--his cock, his orgasms, his need for release. His Superior certainly benefits from his chastity through improved service, but the man remains the central focus. Cuckolding, in contrast, empowers the woman. She has the power to choose whether and how to explore her erotic interests outside of her primary relationship. The cuckold is in much less control of the situation. The loss of control inherent in cuckolding accounts for its transformative power for submissive men. It forces them to utilize deep reserves of trust and love to adjust to a subordinate position that may feel new and uncomfortable, at least at first. The cuckold must come face to face with a hard but strangely ennobling reality that his partner is in control of the situation. When cuckolding is added to a chastity regimen, the erotic foundation for a true female-led relationship has been laid. It is very inspiring for a submissive man to have pledged himself to serve a sexually available and desirable woman. Isn't it an honor to serve a highly sexed woman? Isn't it a privilege that she continues to view you and your relationship as primary no matter how intense her outside affairs become. Cuckolding is the black belt test of a female-led relationship.

3/8/2015 3:30:54 PM: This is lovely 'To fall at the feet of an imperious mistress, obey her mandates, or implore pardon, were for me the most exquisite enjoyments...' -Jean-Jacques Rousseau-Confessions 1782

11/3/2014 4:30:41 AM: I read this in a Domme's profile on FL. It's beautiful... This is simply my ideal cuck relationship. I am open to many other forms of cuckolding. At least currently this is what I imagine my perfect relationship to be. I'd also like to note that I'm not a findom and am not just looking to use a cuck for his money or to be 'spoiled,' as it is more about showing his devotion in acts. My ideal cuck relationship would be one in which I am with a submissive, loving, intelligent, doting, and service-orientated cuck whom cares more about my pleasure than his own. I would own him and use or not use his body for my pleasure depending entirely upon my mood. I'd also completely dictate when he is allowed to cum, if ever, and lock him in chastity. It would also be a collared relationship. Ideally he would wear his normal looking, more symbolic collar at all times and out in public. This would be something simple like a necklace or maybe just a bracelet; something of that nature. While just wearing this, he would only be slightly submissive to me and otherwise appear to be a fairly normal couple out in public. Other alpha men would probably tease a little about being whipped but they wouldn't know the extent of it. Other women would be envious of how caring and attentive my boyfriend is and compare their boyfriends to mine. When we are alone at home, he would present me with his sub collar in which then my Domme rules would be enacted. There are just two basic ones I can go over later. When wearing this other collar, I'd expect all of my orders to be adhered to promptly and with enthusiasm. What i say goes. It's what the cuck would be wearing while I have other -real- men come over or when I go out. I want to train my cuck to learn to adhere to and grow to be constantly aware of and anticipate my needs, wants and desires. For example, if I say, 'i'm cold,' they would get up and get me a blanket without being told to. Simple things like this is what matter a lot to me. What I am most looking for is a 'partner' that is in an unequal state with me and thrives on the double standards I would set in our relationship, which could basically be summed up as, 'I do whatever I want to do and you do what I tell you to do.' I have every confidence in myself that I could obtain this with the right willing person.

11/25/2013 8:59:47 AM: Slavery is not about suffering...slavery is about serviceSlavery is not about humiliation...slavery is about humilitySlavery is not about pain...slavery is about being presentSlavery is not about being used...slavery is about being of use.Slaver is not about control...slavery is about letting go.Slavery is not about what is done to you...slavery is about what you do for others.Slavery is not about abuse...slavery is about acceptance.Slavery is not about proving anything...slavery is about  being real.Slavery is not about contempt...slavery is about respect.Slavery is not about how you look...slavery is about how much you care.Slavery is not about denying yourself...slaver is about being open.Slavery is not about bondage...slavery is about freeing your spirit.Slavery is not about punishment...slavery is about discipline.Slavery is not about being unable to escape...slavery is about being committed.Slavery is not about submission...slavery is about obedience.Slavery is not about fear...slavery is about trust.Slavery is not about sex...slavery is about love.Slavery is not about pleasure...slavery is about happiness.

11/25/2013 6:33:56 AM: 'True cuckold angst and related feelings are not going to be in someone who is not in real love with his Cuckoldress.   The psychological aspects of cuckolding are as equally important as the physical acts associated with denial and physical control of the cuck.' Ms Satin  

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