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Blonde, green eyed Okie.  Comfortable in country life.  5' 7" over 200lbs but
Female Submissive, 50,  Northeast, Oklahoma


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Age: 66, Height: 5ft 10in (178 cm), Weight: 190 lbs.
Location: Northern Calif, California
Last on 4/17/18 at 5:39 PM












 Submissive Female



 Willing to Relocate

 5' 7"

 200 lbs





Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male


Blonde, green eyed Okie.  Comfortable in country life.  5' 7" over 200lbs but working on reducing that.

I have always been described as shy or timid, although I think it is a bit different than that as I've recently discovered.

I would like to find someone who can be counted on and not wishy washy.  I am somewhat new to the lifesyle and trying to learn and hoping to not get in bad situations.

If you have any questions, please ask.

UPDATE: Ok, I think I need to clarify some things.  I am looking for a Dom who is in control in the bedroom area of life, but will let me be me in other vanilla aspects.  I will look to him for guidance, suggestions, etc.  But I am not a doormat.  My willingness to give up control will take trust, and building trust takes time and getting to know each other.  This does not happen in 10 minutes or in 2-3 emails.

Also, just because it shows I'm logged in to this site, does not mean I'm sitting in front of the computer.  I may have had to go to another room to do something or had to leave and forgot to log off.  If you don't have any patience, then we will not work out in a relationship.

Thank you for reading this

Journal Entries:
2/12/2015 6:30:11 PM
Well, thanks to the governor of the state I live in, the job I had interviewed twice for is now under a hiring freeze so back to square one. :-(

1/31/2015 6:55:31 PM
Well, since I've had multiple people ask, I'll update  this.  I'm still job hunting.  I have been on quite a few interviews and so far no offer.  I had a 2nd interview for a position on Monday and I'm waiting to hear something from them.  Trying to be hopeful and crossing my fingers.

4/12/2014 8:52:37 AM
What to do... What to do? Was let go from job yesterday. Still kind of shocked. Now to figure out all my options. :-/

2/11/2014 10:38:32 AM

Just took the "What Type Of Relationship Should You Actually Be In?" quiz... I got "The opposites.. LOL   Makes sense since I'm on his site huh? 

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