Collarspace

If you are looking at this, scratching your head, wondering Why did this guy just say hey or hello .. what are you expecting? My life story broken down into a 3 paragraph biography? What would you do if I came up to you at a munch or at a bar or someplace and gave you all that ination in a verbal montage? Youd look at me and wonder why I was allowed to be out in public without a white jacket with the sleeves too long.

I get that the online world is different than the real world but only because we allow it to be.

Who I am

I am a 53 year old Dom who is going back to school to learn to be a medical billercoder because photography, like crime, doesnt pay. I am divorced with no kids. I dont smoke and drink socially. I am attending school by day and work 4 ten hour shifts during the week.

What I am looking for

I am looking for a submissiveslave that is smart, has a sense of humor and is willing to relocate.

My brand of BDSM

One good thing about this lifestyle is that most everyone in it agrees that whatever dynamic that works for a particular couple is just fine with the rest of the community. No one has to con to a certain set of rules.

Having said that.. I dont go for Me Dom, you sub kind of lifestyle. Yes, Im the Dom and will therefore be in charge but that doesnt mean you wont have say in things you will be afforded the opportunity to give your opinion in most things. If you have certain skills and or knowledge about a particular topic, for me not to ask you about it would be just plain silly, dont you think?

That isnt to say that I will tolerate a lot of bullshit out of a subslave if she is wearing my collar to be frank, I wont no more than any vanilla head of household would tolerate.

A collared subslave would wear her collar 247 either a play or public collar. Also I would want to tattoo your slave registration number (in bar code) to your inner thigh (that may be a stretch for some and I understand and am willing to discuss this they make temporary tattoos). That may sound like a contradiction to what I have said previously but it is a personal kink, I like the idea of knowing youre wearing My brand.

I am wanting a 247 lifestyle commitment but that doesnt mean that we wont be out in vanilla society and functioning as a normal couple in their eyes. What they dont know wont hurt them.I am on Fet as OldTanker.

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