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	Before you read on... my journal entries say just as much if not more about me than my profile does. The next evolution... please read to the end... As a sub, I am ever evolving on this journey. Always learning more about what motivates me to serve. I do not feel the need to serve just any Dominant but one whose desires complement my own. I think brat would best describe me now. Sarcastic, fun, testing and teasing are a natural part of me. But a brat who longs to be reigned in by a Dominant man whose almost sadistic in his pleasure of teasing edgeing orgasm denial control. A Dom that is willing to ask on a regular basis to ask what I fantasize about because he knows he can use that info in the way he loves to control me. Thats just a start. Not a masichist, but appreciate the mental aspects of impact discipline in all its s. Oh, and bondage of course... lots and lots. If youre knowledgable with rope, or want to be, even better.... What does this Dom get in return you might ask? Assuming this type of sub is for him... A willing, happy, and ever horny sub available for just about anything that will allow her to orgasm.... never a doormat. Eager to please, as well as imaginitive and intelligent. Shell both challenge and satisfy. If you want a photo, you need to be prepared to prove you are real and not a troll. 420 friendly, hope you are too. Not willing to relocate.

8/7/2016 7:00:13 AM

It's almost football season! Will Mr. Garapoulo make us not worry about Deflategate?

7/16/2016 5:02:05 PM

Why do I get the feeling sometimes that if a sub doesn't act like a whore on line, she won't attract a good Dom. Nothing should be farther from the truth.

1/30/2016 12:18:24 PM

okay, so I've been on this site for a while. And what I seek has not changed. But I've come to realize, that I need a Dom that's at least close to being as financially successful as I am. I'm not rich, but I am a professional, with professional values. I hope to find the same. If you can't afford a nice restaurant, still have bills you can't afford to pay at the end of the month, carry high debt, or have bad credit.... you probably shouldn't bother contacting me. I have no desire to be your financial keeper.

1/23/2016 12:06:38 PM

Cyber...Unless it's within the context of a real time face to face relationship, It's just not for me. So unless you want to make me feel like vomiting, don't waste your time.

7/12/2015 1:00:01 PM

Where have all the real and romantic Doms gone.

As an experienced submissive, i feel I'm constantly evolving. things that interested me years ago, have been checked off as "been there done that". I'm not interested in teaching a new Dom, on the contrary, looking for my long term teacher, mentor, and loving leader.

I respond well to reward, and carefully metered out pain. But just as a Dom wants to be needed, I need to be wanted, desired, cherished and cared for. In return, I can and want to give so much of myself...

2/12/2014 4:31:27 PM

From Becoming Sir by Ella Dominguez An experienced sub sends a letter to a newbie Dom.

...Submission is a gift, and just because a woman is allowing you to take control of her, doesn't mean she owes you anything. I know Dominating a submissive is an exciting and powerful thing, but please don't let your ego get the best of you or your roll as a Dominant go to your head.

...A Dominant to me is someone who is courageous and not afraid to defend himself or his loved ones. He is also not afraid to admit fear and faces it head on.

Self-effacing, well informed and hard working are other qualities that define a Dom.

A sense of humor and ability to laugh at oneself is a must in a dominant personality and a quality I think is underestimated, but that's just my personal opinion.

Most importantly a Dominant is generous, loving and respectful to not only his submissive, but to all women. He is gentlemanly in public, playful in private, and a savage in the bedroom.

I found this amazing quote from wrightwilliams.org: "A True Dom has a firm hand, a firm mind, a firm gaze, a firm grip, and a soft heart." I couldn't have said it any better so I won't try.

I think you'll find that a submissive requires more time and affection than your everyday woman. She needs her Dom to continually seduce consent from her and give her what she is afraid to ask for because pushing her limits will set her free from fear of the unknown.

As for what a sub needs, I can only speak for myself. but I crave and need structure and rules, as do most subs I'd imagine. It sounds like a lot to take on, and it is. But then again, a submissive is giving up a piece of her soul when she offers herself to her Dom.

I'll leave you with this last thing. Everyone's needs and kinks are different, and there are a million ways to live this lifestyle. All you can do is live it in a way that satisfies you, but live it honorably because it's a great responsibilty, being a Dom is not something that should be entered into lightly.

7/27/2013 7:16:08 AM

I can always tell a newbie Dom when they post photos of their toy collection in their profile. Gentlemen, Dominance is a state of mind, not your toy collection.