8/24/2016 2:01:33 AM: In recent years I've spend consideral time speaking to women (of all ages) who identify as'Littles (young girls usually between 4 and 12 years) or babygirls (younger than 3) or a pet (mostly kittens).   From the conversations I've had, the things I have learned from these women and my own studies, it's become apparent that most of these women have something in common.   Let me first explain that women who identify as little, babygirls or pets arn't twisted freaks who are into sex wih underage children or beastiality, in fact often, when they are in this 'space' there is often no sex involved at all. As for the men (or other women) who might be called daddy, mummy, master, ma'am or sir and are their 'caretakers', they arnt neccesarilly either, they simply enjoy the nurturing, care or petting perhaps, that goes with their role.   Those who are into purely the sex without the emotional connection, I would be extremely cautious of.   It seems that most women who identify as a little a babygirl or pet have at some stage in their childhood experienced trauma. Trauma may include violence or assualt (sexual or non- sexual), neglect, abuse, abandonment or a dysfunctonal family or environment. It's most likely that if she identifies as a pet she is (for a while) able to escape who she thinks she is and be someone completely different. Kittens particularly have permission to play, they are cared for and petted, they can sit on your lap and gently held and they arnt hurt or a recipient of anger, a kitten is loved and feels wanted. The same can be said for a little, she gets to colour and play, maybe watch her favourite movies, she is loved and nurtured, cared for, perhaps groomed and allowed to dress up and feel pretty. She feels safe within defined boundaries and knows that Mummy and/or Daddy loves and guides her. For a babygirl, the need for care is much more important, she relies on Mummy and/or Daddy to provide all of her care and love her unconditionally She adores the attention, she cant exist or feel safe and secure without it and it makes her feel wanted and adored. Often women who fit in to these roles have low self esteem, though it may not always be obvious. They can carry out parenting roles very effectively themselves or have a career that requires inner strength and power. Sometimes however, they like to slip into these places in which they feel comfortable, loved and secure, a place they can be their happy selves.   Treat them well, dont ever take advantage of them while they are in their 'space', it is where they go to in order to feel safe and can be happy, in a lot of cases, it's the only place they can.

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6/24/2013 11:23:27 PM: You can wear your corset, stockings and heels put your hair up and make-up on and look absolutely divine but the moment you look a me willingly with your heart in your hand asking me while you offer me all of you - that's when I cannot resist you.

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