What kind of things can I tell you about myself. Let's see... I have been interested in the lifestyle for about 20 years when I just happened to come across a chatroom on aol and couldn't leave...I spent a hours searching on the Internet reading and learning. I knew that this was something I desired. The power exchange was such an incredible feeling as I read. Don't get me wrong the kink had its bonuses as well. After my divorce I attended a few play parties and munches neither of those being of any interest to me as I am a private person. I played a little but again I'm not a player so that didn't work out to well. I had one D/s relationship that grew in love and there was my submission. I found myself that I could give more freely. So with that I want the best of both worlds.

i'm hoping to find a relationship that will be private for the most part. In public i'm sure there will be the simple signals and the simple look or You will  move Your arm that will indicate something only the two of us will understand. When in the vanilla world, i expect to act vanilla and i would hope You would too. 

i am 58. i work full time. i love to volunteer within the community, family and grandchildren are very important, enjoy crafts. movies and playing piano. 

i have been in and out of a couple D/s relationships for over 20 years.