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| First, thank you for stopping by my profile. I know that most women spend so much time playing defense on this site that you hardly have time to investigate options at your own leisure. So I appreciate that you've taken a minute to stop here.
I am a 40-year-old man living and working in Washington, DC. I am safe, sane, responsible, well-educated, and stable (financially and socially). I have traveled the world (and have the pictures to show it), stay current, and can uphold my end of a conversation (and not just about sex and kink). I also know my way around a kitchen and enjoy good food and good wine. By all outward appearances, I am a perfectly normal, perfectly respectable person.
But I also have a deep and abiding dominant side. This is mainly about control and submission. I am not naturally a sadist and don't derive much enjoyment from senseless pain or degradation. What thrills me is the idea of a woman submitting to my control and surrendering to me the responsibility for her pleasure and mine. That involves bondage, sensory deprivation, and discipline -- spanking or slapping when necessary, but also rewards and encouragement for obedience and a job well done.
Ideally, I would like to find a pet that I can train, control, and, yes, adore. I am not a harsh dominant, but I am firm when necessary.
However, I'm not looking for 24/7, total power exchange. I'd hope you can hold your own and be your own person when the ball gag is off -- that there can be communication between us about what works and what doesn't, about your needs and mine. And, of course, it should be natural and easy to transition out into the real world, where you would be a confident, accomplished person.
For me, dominance and submission is entirely psychological. Humiliation isn't about forcing a woman to do something against her will, it is about creating the right conditions so that she feels permitted -- perhaps "compelled" -- to do the "shameful" things that she has secretly wanted to do all along! Submission is a gift, and should be treated as such. It is not inherently inferior to dominance and, truth be told, the great secret of CM is that submissive women have all the real power on this site. They only give it up when they feel comfortable.
I won't make you miscapitalize pronouns, and I won't make you call me "Master." Real dominance isn't based on that. It's based on trust, respect, and confidence in each other. I'm willing to take the time to develop that, at your pace and with your needs and limits in mind.
I'm happy to carry on a conversation with like-minded people, although my ultimate hope is to find interested women for real-time exploration of boundaries and desire. At the moment, I am not in a position to offer a long-term relationship. Ideally, I would like to find a woman who is available a few times a month for experimentation and play.
Again, thanks for reading, and if you're interested to know more or if you think we might have something to offer each other, please let me know!
PS: I am completely discreet and respectful of privacy. In fact, I will probably insist on it for my own personal and professional reasons.
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