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| I'm spending a lot of time with a very close friend from highschool, guiding her with her exploration of new things .... she is bi-curious and has a great love for being ked. She is tender and sweet, and not intetested in the crude side of things often found in this lifestyle. We are in the Lewiston/Auburn area almost every weekend and open to meet another female who is clean and takes care of herself. She is shy, and I cannot guarantee that things will go beyond talking over dinner and drinks, but much has to do with her level of comfort... she does have a fantasy of being watched or used by a female, and sometimes the opposite, all well as other interests worth exploring. However most of the time she enjoys being sweet, caring and nurturing ... one might say a mother figure, although she would reject the idea of being involved in mommy/daddy play...
If we do develop a relationship with another female, we have pictures and would expect the same in return fairly quickly, and certainly before any meeting. We are willing to verify that we are real, but she dislikes the idea of being in charge of making anything happen on her curiosities... in other words, most of the planning happens through me.
We have a private location to meet people we trust and enjoy the idea of entertaining, be they domme or sub or even slave orientation. Or even just somebody who is curious and wants to talk with another female about their own curiosities.
(Old profile below)
I have no children. I work a lot. I'm in the initial process of building a year round camp/log home, without neighbors and a LOT of privacy.
I'm looking for somebody to share that with. If not as a relationship, then as a friend, arm candy, a short term sub/slave. I don't live the lifestyle 24/7. I live in the vanilla world and do NOT need to be a demanding DOM. Yes, I can do that with a woman who responds well to that, but I am not interested in that all the time, or out in public. The community knows me, weather or not I like it. I keep a normal exterior, and even at home, I'm more than happy to enjoy time together doing normal things...
.. but I also enjoy the darker things that this lifestyle has to offer. Collars, leather cuffs, ball gags. Leashes, belts, rough sex... intense intimacy. I enjoy showing off an intelligent, classy, sub. A black dress and pearl collar has a beauty only those who understand can appreciate. Fine dining, and travel out and away from town wearing a discreet collar is an excellent way to bring the lifestyle out into the public without any embarrassing ramifications.
There are few kinks that bother me, few limits that I have. Few things that would turn me off to share with a woman who gets off on them..... oddly Diapers, tickling, and baby-talk turn me off. Exceptionally bratty girls and drama, uncontrolled anger ad rages are all hard limits for me.
I respond very well to traditional women ... 1950's lifestyle has a strong draw for me. A family built around that would definitely be of interest. I like traditional roles... its not a sexist thing. My profession is a very traditional role... I protect people with a gun. I rabidly protect what's mine.
I unwind with random travel. Short day trips with no real destination just a need to drive... (Baxter State park, The Alligash, Mount Desert Island or al dining anywhere in the state) taking a week or two or three to travel to someplace that the mood strikes. I recently took a woman with me to Las Vegas, California, Nevada and Arizona ... just because I could.
I'll be building a small 3 bedroom log home soon enough. 100 wooded acres and a lake, stream and without neighbors is the goal. Somebody who lives for bar hopping, partying and being out every night might not enjoy it.
I have several female friends, some subs, some friends with benefits, and some who love to just travel at the drop of a hat. I've trained more than a couple subs. I've protected and helped numerous subs get out of bad situations. I've enjoyed the company of young women and mature women. I don't play games, and I will speak the truth. Ask, and I'll give you an answer. I expect the same in return. Don't assume that you know what I want to hear... I get lied to a lot because of work. I can smell bullshit a mile away. Don't bring it home to me ...because without trust, I have no reason or desire to waste my time with someone.
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*** Previous Profile ***
It's been a while since I've been here on collar. Over the years my interests have changed and my situation as well. Having recently tried the Vanilla world again, but ended up with CRAZY, I've decided to give here another try. At least here I can take CRAZY over my knee and spank it out of her... out there apparently it's called abuse.
I'm looking for a partner, a sub, a lover, an intelligent woman, who believes in TRADITIONAL gender roles. I spend my life protecting people for a living, and I feel that its my job to protect MINE as well. I'm not overly protective, but I do keep a watchful eye out for trouble and I have no problem confronting it head on.
Strangely, I DO NOT DO DRAMA. If you think that its fun to '"stir shit up" with people, then I'm not your man.
I'm prior military. I enjoy a quiet lifestyle. I'm no a big club person (I've been to more clubs in more countries before I was 25 than most people get to in their entire lives), so I'm not too interested in paying $15/drink all night long. I'd much rather spend twice that on a steak at a quality establishment with good company in tow.
I rarely send out messages. But I to try to reply to the ones I get. I don't however get online as much as I should ...so It may be a day or so. |
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I've been out of the loop here for over two years... I've been living the "vanilla" family life. Working to grow a business....two actually. Living on a small hobby farm with a woman and her daughter, raising chickens, a garden, pigs.. etc. Things had all the hallmarks of a per, free of the lifestyle (except for the fact that I had full permission to have a sub and to have her join us). I guess in many ways I could have developed into the best of both worlds. But ...then drama ensued. Nothing to do with subs, or sex, but rather to do with a woman's emotion mood swings. Crazy-town is a deal breaker. Drama. Fighting like trailer trash is all very much a deal breaker.
Its hard to find somebody who operates on logic, rather than emotion. Personal discipline is something very important. The ability to be educated, have class, be polite and respectful and a gracious host, are all important for a woman I let into my life as a partner. Its a shame that maturity isn't something you find with a woman who also wants and is capable of having a family. I suppose there are 30 y/o women who have a great level of maturity and want a family, to be professional, yet want a quiet life in a small town and very few neighbors.
Loyalty, is not just faithfulness. Its about working together as a partnership, and as of yet... even among subs, there seems to be very few who actually understand the importance of loyalty... perhaps this is a pipe dream. Perhaps I am too demanding and I've set the bar too high and unattainable. Or perhaps I'm just an arrogant asshole who wants his cake, and eat it too...
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Congrats to the young lady who recognized me while I was on the job in RL, and then politely contacted me here, saying she was afraid of guns and wanted to learn about them to overcome her fear.
She got to watch us on the range and then do some shooting of the following:
-AR-15 with Eotec and Magpul furnature (w/ .22LR conversion)
-Glock23 (.40 S&W)
-Ruger SR-22
-S&W .38 Snub/Bodyguard
-Ruger LCP (.380)
-Tactical Ruger 10/22 w/ Tapco furnature and RedDot
She did decline the Tactical AK-47 w/ Sig RedDot and the Mossberg SPX 12g, but we don't blame her as both weapons are big dogs, and maybe next time she'll explore those as well.
But her marksmanship was excellent once she stopped being afraid of the weapons or the other shooters on site. Nobody was laughing when she averaged 9/10 hits and zero flyers.
Statistically, women are better shooters than men, right out of the box. Most women however are simply afraid of the big scary guns and guys in tactical gear. |
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| Age: 27 |
| Ontario,
Canada |
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