This is my first journal entry on CM; there's a good reason behind why now. We're like anyone you'd meet in this lifestyle; found each through a website fell in love and began a relationship based on who we genuinely are inside and out. No secrets, no need for them and true partners in all areas of our lives. Because we're poly amorous as well as into BDSM we've conducted many searches for potential subs/slaves and have found a lot of friends but never quite what we're looking for. It's been a journey; with no regrets, lots of love to go around and a ton of experience learning through practice and study. 

How we've done these searches had been somewhat random using CM, , Alt.com, Craigslist etc. What's been an interesting revelation is the integrity of the people we've met on CM this time around. I know there are a large number of fakes and predators on any website and it seems, from what I've heard from subs and slaves we've chatted with, there are an extraordinary number of them on CM. What we've seen on some of the other sites are people dipping their toes in for the first time where they might be years away from having a real time experience which can be frustrating finding that out after investing time getting to know someone. In no way am I saying this kind of frustration compares to the rude boys and fakes female subs/slaves have to put with, but it's a source for us.

What we've found on CM are people who are for the most part serious about what they're looking for, more so than any of the other places we've searched. Whether we're a match of not it's been refreshing having intelligent worthwhile discussions about what people are looking and what we're into and looking for. 

 Most of our lifestyle friends and social life resides on () and we love everything about it, but not necessarily a place where people are doing active searches.