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So I guess it is time for an update, since the old profile was written years ago.



We are a couple consisting of a female that prefers a dominant role, and a non-binary transgender switch. We are homebodies, live in a small, quaint little town, keep busy with things around our house and keeping our children occupied. We are a family, and the door is open to enlarge our family. We are not actively pursuing anyone, but we are perfectly willing to consider anyone who is seriously interested in us. Think of us as a couple of spiders relaxing on our web watching the world go by while we wait for someone to um,.visit -)



We are both feminists. We do not think that anyone owes us their submission. We are incredibly moved however, when submission is offered, and we take great pride when such offers are occasionally made. We believe in the sanctity of consent, and would never per any actions that were unwelcome. We know that some people do not consider this hard core enough or whatever, and such people are free to move along. That being said, we are quite willing to explore darker things. We are both demisexual, which means that we require an emotional connection before any of the dirty stuff happens. If you want a quickie then we are certainly not for you. We want someone who will invest in us just as we will invest in them. As stated previously, the door is open, but we are quite happy together and we are not desperate. That being said, nobody that is interested in contacting us should be intimidated. We promise we are nice P and we are happy to make a new friend, even if the romance never happens. So please feel free to send a note and say hello. You never know where it might go.



The cis-female I enjoy lots of vanilla things. Quiet nights in front of the TV cuddling, long walks with my camera, I am learning to sew, and I am passionate about many social issues. I like to garden and spend time outside when it is not too hot. I prefer the dominant role. It does not matter to me which role you prefer, so long as you understand that I am not going to submit, although I will bottom during intercourse. Note that this does not mean that I feel any partner of mine must submit to me, just be aware that for many personal reasons I will not do it for you. I do love submissives though. I am touched and deeply moved when someone offers themselves to me in this manner, and I take my responsibilities to them very seriously. I have always wanted a service submissive. Many have offered this to me, but so far none have been compatible. I can always hope though! Please note that I am not into 247 TPE. I consider my partners to be equals that simply prefer to express their affection for me through submission. If you cannot see yourself conversing and sharing an evening with me on equal terms then I am not for you. I am bisexual, but I have ZERO interest in men. I am only attracted to femininity (and I consider tomboys to be feminine!) If you identify as a woman (regardless of plumbing), then feel free to say hello, otherwise I will probably ignore you.sorry boys.



The non-binary trans The sun rises and sets on my partner. If you are only interested in me and not her, then I will pass- just wanted to put that out there in front. I am not interested in men either. I like girls, and I do not care what the girl has between her legs. Like my beloved, I adore submissives. I tend to be playful and I enjoy putting them in compromising situations and asking them how they feel about it. I also know that submission is not something owed, but something offered as a gift. I also love dominant women (duh!) and certain ones seem to find me to be pretty interesting. But enough with the vague kinky stuff, this is supposed to be about me. Non-binary means that I do not really identify as male or female. I tend to exist in between, but will swing to either end depending on the situation, or my mood (I also have triggers that can be used to push me one way or the other too). I like to think I am unique in this way. I have been on HRT for about 5 years. I may or may not transition further someday. My intellect is a big part of my identity. I am a huge geek about some things, such as economics and geopolitics. I think the stuff is absolutely fascinating, and I take a systems theory approach (in case you know what that is and find it interesting).



We used to have photos up, and it was a huge hassle because all they did was generate ignorant responses that obviously ignored the content of our profile. If a mutual interest develops, we are perfectly willing to share photos once we are certain you are genuine. This way, we know that people want to contact us for the right reasons -) We tend to think that finding kinks that we have in common with people is the easy part. It is the vanillafriendshipromantic part that is the hard thing to get right. We love hearing from new people and we are happy to make new friends if nothing else, so please feel free to say hello!
7/8/2012 6:10:12 PM

Explicit photos are not impressive by the way.

7/8/2012 5:55:00 PM

So, this is our third profile in as many years....don't ask why...Just accept Tongue Out Any interested parties (female ones only) feel free to drop us a note. We will update this journal and our profile when we feel we have something to add.

Bondagebabi23
 
 Age: 30
 Bessemer, Alabama