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Nixa
Hetero Female, 43, Michigan 
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Nixa

I feel like people won't read this, but for those who might, while I love making new friends, and chatting about a wide variety of subjects I'm not currently looking for a partner, either a dominant or a play partner. Between working 60 hours a week and going to school full time, most days I have no idea if I'm coming or going, so unless you'd like to join me at the gym I can't imagine where I'd put a relationship at this time. This is why I checked off just looking for friends. For those who actually read profiles, thank you for your time and best wishes on your search!

 

 

I am first, and foremost, service oriented. Its a part of the fabric of my soul. I hope to find someone some day who understands what having a service oriented person means, and how to feed that exchange.

Kindness, personal growth, community involvement, family, and personal responsibility are all core values for me.

My personal philosophy is that Ms relationships take time. Time to get to know each other, time for trust to be earned on both side, time to grow.

Im also an experienced Sm switch with a penchant for sharp pokey things, and whips.

Service rests on the basic premise that the nature of life is sacred, that life is a holy mystery which has an unknown purpose. When we serve, we know that we belong to life and to that purpose. Fundamentally, helping, fixing, and serving are ways of seeing life. When you help, you see life as weak. When you fix, you see life as broken. When you serve, you see life as a whole. Lastly, fixing and helping are the basis of curing but not healing. Only service heals. Rachel Naomi Remen, MD in the service of life.

12/22/2023 9:18:05 AM: It's been a couple of years since I've been on here. Nice to see things up and working again. Need to do an overhaul of my profile.

4/9/2018 11:11:45 AM: Sometimes it's simply a matter of stopping and just breathing deeply for a few minutes.

3/31/2018 1:36:25 PM: You asked me what I want, and I've been giving that question a lot of thought.I want to build my business into a clinic that becomes a well know connecting point for wellness.I want to make enough money that I can actually put some away and return before I'm 90.I want a reliable car and a home that is a sanctuary from the outside world.I want to be the alpha who reigns over my home.I want to build a family of choice. People who are open minded. Who work hard, care about and support each other, and are striving for their dreams. A family that encourages personal growth and actively supports it. People who understand whimsical but have the maturity to be practical and self motivated.I want to be poly. I want to be able to open my heart and find love in a myriad of connections, not necessarily sexual either.I want someone that I can serve, who understands service, how to receive it, how to feed the power and energy exchange that happens during it. I need this person to be someone outside of my home.I want someone that will serve me, a few times a month. Someone to do something to make my life easier for a change. Service that could manifest in a variety of ways. From driving to events out of state, to coming in to my home and giving me a massage, or cooking a dinner, or even setting up my filing system.I want someone that I can nurture, that I can build an exchange with and see it grow.I want a Top with a sadistic streak. Someone who can take my out of my head and connect me back to my body. Who can feed on my pain and twist with me as it turns into pleasure.I want a bottom who will let me suspend them in saran wrap and sew bells onto their body, or poor hot wax onto them after drawing on them with a popsicle. Someone who can take some pain with the sensation. Someone I can laugh and enjoy a scene with while we both revel in the energy exchange and connection.I want a primary partner. Someone I can build a life with, rely on, and trust. Someone who is self motivated and pursuing their own dreams and personal development. Someone who sparks not just a love and nurturing feeling, but who I can't wait to kiss, lick, fuck, and make love to. Someone who doesn't mind giving me space when I need it, and who doesn't need me to constantly be there attending to them because they have their own life too. Someone who is confident and grounded.I want to not just life my life, but I want to love my life. I want to wake up each day excited about the day, not dreading the ordeals.There are things about us that fit so well into what I want. I'm just not sure where they fit, and how much you want to fit into the vision I see for my future. Some people come on our journey's for only a short time, a season or a reason, while I enjoy those people for the things they've added to my life, and the lessons I've learned from their presence, I am at a point in my life where I want people who will be with me for a life time.

3/30/2018 8:15:16 PM: The CFNM party is about popping cherries this coming month. Trying to decide what I haven't tried that might be fun to try at a party. The only thing that comes to mind is cleaning and oiling a pair of leather pants while they're on the wearer. Only problem is, I don't think I've ever seen anyone wear a pair of leather pants to this particular party...the men aren't in pants and the women are usually comfortable lol. Maybe I'll just watch and enjoy the atmosphere.

3/25/2018 7:09:04 AM: You asked if I'm capable of forgiveness. The simple answer would be yes. The more complicated one, less flattering, I am capable of it, but it's not something I'm good at extending. It took me years to forgive members of my family, and some I still haven't forgiven. I know I carry that attitude forward, and it's an area of weakness that I need to work on. I don't tend to expect forgiveness for my transgressions either. It's not a good attitude to have, but I'm still at a loss as to how to cultivate this trait without becoming a doormat.The branding piece I carry on my back has flames for trial, a phoenix for strength and rebirth, but it lacks the final two pieces. The symbol for forgiveness that will go between the wings and an anchor. With each year that passes, I feel it's incompleteness and worry that it'll never be done. But I can't have those pieces added until I can feel them as part of my soul. Does that make sense?

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