Does anyone on here ever ever play and not be wanting sex? Play just for the pleasures of bdsm ..or is everyone just using this  to get fucked  ?????

I am looking for a casual female for something a little bit unusual. I would like to meet up just to play with her breasts ,finger her and to give her oral in order for her to reach a climax this could also involve some spanking and slapping . in return she would do nothing sexual to me ....i would remain dressed whist she would be stripped or be semi naked.... no full on sex would take place....just me giving her pleasure with my hands and my mouth....can be someone married or single or of any age as it would be done in a very discrete way....talk to me if interested and we can develop the idea and see what comes about