After many years of using the "Trans" label, I've found I'm probably better off not using it for what I seek.
To look at me I am a blend in the crowd "guy." I have a child and that is all my child ever needs to know. In private I'd say I cover a wider spectrum. So as much as I have a femme side I enjoy, I do have a side of me that desires a female that falls between sub and slave.
She needs to appear as normal as anyone else in public and with family and friends.
In private she needs to be loveable as well as accepting of her position and what comes with it.
AND.. she has to have nicer legs then me! LOL
Sub guys.. save your messages.. as that falls in to my "no interest" category..