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Old-Fashioned Experienced Anachronistic
A strict, controlling, demanding, yet patient, loving and affectionate Master. Honor, Integrity, Honesty, Principles and Codes of Conduct - these have been and will be the basis of My life.
Counselor, teacher, writer, lecturer, mentor, mage, Master, Dominant and protector of women.
47 years in the study, as well as the practice and instruction, of Metaphysical/Spiritual subjects and techniques.
38 years in the Martial Arts, including aspects of energy and healing work through Chinese Medicine, Reiki and other healing/energy disciplines. 26 years body building.
Both of those physical pursuits coming to an end when I cracked My back for the second time :-)
Clinical Psych.... And yes, with all that is implied therein :-)
In fact, My vocation has always been in the psychiatric/psychological services disciplines. Yes, clinical this and abnormal that and hypno this and so on.
I also spent a great deal of time teaching at Uni - and loved it.
I am somewhat retired these days.
I was raised by Old Guard BDSM families in the 50's and 60's, took My first slave as a D/s BDSM Master in 1969 and have been involved in this Lifestyle - both BDSM, and Gor from the 70's - ever since, right up to this very day.
I have moved between these two worlds, having respect and appreciation for each.
When appropriate, also referred to as Master Arcan, or 'Daddy' :-)
I demand honesty - without honesty there can be no trust and without trust, there can be no relationship of any kind.
I take-charge and control what is in My life - especially YOU.
I do not smoke, drink or do drugs. AND *YOU* NOT SMOKING IS PARTICULARLY IMPORTANT TO *ME*.
I love music, particularly Jazz (acoustic, fusion and electric) and Classical, Swing Bands, Sinatra and The Rat Pack, Oldies from the 50's and 60's, Motown, Blues and Bluegrass, Broadway Musicals and Movie Soundtracks.
Here are some of My other passions:
Crossword Puzzles, Shortwave/Police Scanner Radio, Haydn, Chopin, Mendelssohn, e a r l y Dylan, Monk, Bird, Trane, Miles, Lady Day, Ella, Nina, Mel, Tony, Frank, Dino, Sammy, Dorsey, DiMeola, Corea, Chuck, George, Kenny G, Cats (the musical or the real thing! ), Science Fiction, The Arts, The 7 Pillars of Wisdom, Cities in Flight, Horatio Hornblower, The Foundation trilogy, The Hunt for Red October, Lawrence of Arabia, The Untouchables, Blazing Saddles, News, Cuddling, CHOCOLATE, and relaxing at home...
For discussion or further contact, message Me. Good conversation is an excellent beginning and intelligent discourse is to be savored.
Some of My more notable quotes:
"Pain is for pleasure NOT pain alone. Pain for pain's sake is abhorrent and negates the true balance between torment and ecstasy...."
"A true Master is a weapon of Subtlety, Art and Power.
I AM that Master...."
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After reading the above, YOU will know if you are whom I am looking for.
CONTACT ME when you do. ---------- Skype: Master_Arcan
FetLife: Arcan
Collarspace: Arcan
xhookups: masterarcan
Email: masterarcan@hotmail.com

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11/23/2016 12:31:42 PM

Poetry is when an emotion has found its thought and the thought has found words.


Robert Frost


11/12/2016 9:39:26 PM

Fetishes, compiled so far, from My account under Arcan on FetLife - with always more to come....

Into: age play

(everything to do with it), bare bottom spanking

(giving), bare handed spanking

(giving), begging

(receiving), biting

(everything to do with it), blow jobs

(receiving), breasts

(receiving), caressing

(everything to do with it), chocolate

(everything to do with it), cocksucking

(receiving), control

(giving), cuddles

(everything to do with it), d/s

(everything to do with it), daddy daughter roleplay

(everything to do with it), daddy/girl

(everything to do with it), discipline

(giving), domination

(giving), erotic literature

(everything to do with it), face fucking

(giving), fingering

(giving), geeks

(receiving), geisha

(receiving), hair pulling

(giving), hairbrush spanking

(giving), hedonism

(everything to do with it), intelligence

(everything to do with it), kissing

(everything to do with it), kneeling

(receiving), master/slave

(everything to do with it), nipples

(everything to do with it), nudity

(receiving), obedience training

(giving), oral sex

(everything to do with it), orgasm control

(giving), orgasm denial

(giving), otk spanking

(giving), pigtails

(receiving), porn

(watching), power exchange

(everything to do with it), sapiosexuality

(everything to do with it), seduction

(everything to do with it), sensual play

(everything to do with it), sensualism

(everything to do with it), sex

(everything to do with it), sleepy sex

(everything to do with it), snuggling

(everything to do with it), spanking

(giving), submission

(receiving), talking dirty

(everything to do with it), teacher/student

(everything to do with it), threesomes

(everything to do with it), tickling

(giving), total power exchange

(everything to do with it), voice play

(giving).

10/29/2016 10:45:03 PM
Recently, several people have asked Me to do the below BDSM test.  I did and the results were similar to what I would expect, mostly....  I will do this again eventually.

I will leave this up for a few days and then trash/delete it.

http://bdsmtest.org/result.?id=2953650

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== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

99% Dominant
93% Master/Mistress
87% Daddy/Mommy
83% Owner
60% Voyeur
52% Primal (Hunter)
48% Non-monogamist
47% Brat tamer
44% Vanilla
33% Ageplayer
30% Rigger
29% Degrader
24% Experimentalist
18% Sadist
12% Exhibitionist
3% Girl/Boy
1% Masochist
1% Primal (Prey)
1% Submissive
1% Switch
0% Brat
0% Degradee
0% Pet
0% Rope bunny
0% Slave

3/4/2016 11:19:31 AM
If you wish to be loved, love.
Lucius Annaeus Seneca

2/17/2016 4:00:14 AM
Just for today, do not be angry
Just for today, do not worry
Just for today, be grateful
Just for today, work hard
Just for today, be kind to others.
Dr Mikao Usui (Rei Ki)

1/19/2016 3:38:14 PM
All answers to all questions are already within you. You simply must listen and trust what you hear.<br>

Arcan

8/21/2010 4:21:36 AM

<br><br>One of My most often asked for mainstream - but not professional - work, is the one below. Whereas The Box, posted earlier, is strictly D/s related and most asked for in BDSM circles as well as being almost 40 years old, this is more spiritual in concept. I wrote it less than 20 years ago. I do not know if this is the appropriate forum for such a work, but I offer it nonetheless. If not, such is life :-)<br><br>

 

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Remember, each day is another lifetime.<br><br>

 

Once it is gone that lifetime is over and a new one begins.<br><br>

 

Live each day as if it was YOUR lifetime, and you will sleep the sleep of the good and the kind and the happy.<br><br>

 

Remember this life on earth is but a play - in the largest sense.<br><br>

 

This earthly place is a stage, a lecture hall, a school and a practice hall.<br><br>

 

You are all here to learn your lessons - if you pass the "test" you move on to other learning experiences.<br><br>

 

If you do not, you stay back and take that lesson, that course, that life over again until you pass the test.<br><br>

 

Or get it right in other words.<br><br>

 

There is an eternity of time.<br><br>

 

So you can, each of you, take as much or as little time as you wish as you need to learn these lessons.<br><br>

 

If you don't, no harm, no foul.<br><br>

 

If you do, relief, and ecstasy in the same breathe.<br><br>

 

Relief in that you can move on to the next lesson and get closer to merging with the God force forever.<br><br>

 

Ecstasy in that you can F E E L how wonderful an accomplishment you have achieved and you can F E E L how incredibly powerful it is to succeed.<br><br>

 

Remember there is no good there is no bad, there is no right there is no wrong.<br><br>

 

There just is - and each of you IS what is.<br><br>

 

Everything in this existence can be understood with two words.<br><br>

 

Everything in this existence can be achieved with two words.<br><br>

 

Everything in this life can be learned with two words.<br><br>

 

The master plan.<br><br>

 

The reasons for existence.<br><br>

 

The ultimate lesson to learn that will eventually set you free and at the same time bind you forever to the supreme being.<br><br>

 

Those two words?<br><br>

 

G I V E<br><br>

 

R E C E I V E<br><br>

 

And His will be done.<br><br>

 

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Arcan<br><br>

 


9/8/2009 12:32:46 AM



The Box





First there is The Box.



The Box is quite small.



No door, no window, just four walls, a ceiling and a floor.



you cannot stand - the ceiling is too low.



So you sit.



Within The Box, W/we speak, learn about each other, begin the journey to become O/one.



From time to time, I leave to attend to matters outside The Box.



But you cannot....



After a time, The Box becomes taller.



Now you can stand.



And then wider.



Soon you can pace - and you *do*....



For a while....



Then you sit back in the corner, safe, secure, feeling the strong wall against your back.



After a while, a window appears and then a chair.



you sit in the chair and look out the window.



you are pleased by what you see.



And yet, you are consumed with O/our journey to be O/one.



you grow tired of looking out the window and eagerly await My return.



you crave My presence, My thoughts, My voice, My touch....



Soon there is a door.



It is open.



you walk to the door and look out.



you revel at the trees and grass and streams that you see.



And then you slowly and firmly close the door and turn the key in the lock.



you turn and approach Me, sitting on the chair.



And then, with grace and beauty, you slowly, ever so slowly, sink to your knees and, looking up at Me with a smile, hand Me the key.



Then you speak.



"Please, Master, destroy this key. The only true freedom I have ever felt is within The Box. Here, I am safe, secure, protected. I know completely all of my limits. And within those limits, I am totally free - free to be whatever I wish to be. And that is a freedom I have never had before in all my life. The ultimate freedom."



As I take the key out of your hand, your head slowly sinks to My knee, lightly resting there, hands around My calf.




Still smiling, eyes closing, softly breathing....



At peace.






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I wrote 'The Box' in the early-mid 70's - and yes I have been in this Lifestyle from the late 50's, in training, to today. 'The Box' is not for every slave, nor for every Master. It "...exemplified how I taught a new slave and how she learned of My control and My strictness. It works wonderfully in Real (Life) ... and has to do with trust, Honour and truthfulness. First, you must 'dare' to enter The Box. Then survive it. Then enjoy it. And finally crave it. Then you are *My* slave...." I could say more, but there is no need. Really :-) To those who asked for this, enjoy.


7/13/2009 9:21:32 PM

<br><br>There are people in your life who show you how to live.<br><br>



There are people in your life who show you how to die.<br><br>



The more important and intimate the emotion, the fewer words are required to express it.<br><br>



The most important and intimate word you can ever say to somebody is....<br><br>





Goodbye<br><br>





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