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ITGirl68
Hetero Female, 56, DCSuburbs, Virginia 
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ITGirl68

Hello, Sweetie!

As many others have experienced, my life has also changed a lot over the last couple of years. Although I still think I am fairly luscious—you may too, if you like large, older women—COVID, age, illnesses, and disabilities have limited my physical ability to participate in many activities. 

I used to waver between describing myself as a kinky, asper, geeky girl (with a lot of experience) and as a beautiful, intelligent, strong, large, sexy, older lady with a wicked streak, a passionate love of life (and music), and a demented sense of humor. Truth is, I think I am both. I have heard that if you make it to 35 without growing up, you are immune fortunately, I can fake the grown-up part (most of the time). Oh I freely admit to being barking mad - but not batshit crazy. I have made a fair number of mistakes in life (and in DS relationships), but I have tried to learn from them. I am neither perfect nor the perfect sub, but I try pretty hard!

I am an avid board gamer, word nerd, and movie theater geek. Also, I love to cook, walk, read, act, craft, and socialise. Icannothandle hot weather. I lie about my age with a religious fervour that would make Saint Teresas eyes fill with envious tears. And I hate what CS does to my writing. I do use punctuation and spacing and line breaks!

I am a strong human being. I seem to have become even stronger in the years since I began accepting and exploring my submissive needs. I suppose I have had to not giving in to the wrong dom can be as difficult as giving in to the right one. And telling the difference...

I am equally romantic and pragmatic, which means that I am probably not well-suited to either the purely romantic or the purely pragmatic (Life is strange that way).

I would love to ask for a knight in shining armor or a prince, but I think that only predators would answer, so I will ask, instead, for a good, loving, vanilla-compatible, dominant man who tries his best to be a decent human being. A man who is generally law-abiding, sane, stable, vaguely intelligent, passionate, romantic, articulate, responsible, and legallymorally available. A man with a large share of patience andor a good sense of humour (to be able to put up with me). Im not kiddding about the patience neededI need someone who is not easily annoyed.

Do you want a relationship that would include love and companionship, as well as DS? We would share vanilla interests and activities and be able to talk with each other about anything or nothing. Would you enjoy a taken-in-hand or daddy girl dynamic -- guiding me, encouraging me, loving me, and understanding me - as I am (rather than as a generic sub or slave). I would thrive in that kind of structured relationship. I would delight in serving and pleasing such a partner -- and in making your already full life happier.

I have a lot to give in return... Love and understanding and jokes and good times and good cooking. I am moderately attractive, not entirely dim, fun, and have a fairly pleasant voice. That was my little attempt at modesty, in case you missed it. Someone asked me what I consider to be my personal skills and strengths. I suppose, for a start, that I am resourceful, devoted, loving, protective, appreciative, grateful, gracious, responsible, and bright I am a good mediator and negotiator I am a moderately talented actress (with a lovely voice) I find creative and inexpensive ways to create fun experiences and accomplish various goals I write well and I can often combine individuals into companionable groups. I love touch, and I delight in giving and receiving massages.

Now the disclaimers...


I am quite literal, and I do not always understand things that seem obvious to others. That can frustrate some people. I need someone who is not easily annoyed.
I feel like a grouch, and I like making new friends. But. I dont like CMs friends section (I do not like it in a box, I do not like it on the rocks). Please dont feel offended when I reject your friend invitation - I am doing it to everyone (I used to just ignore the invitations). It doesnt mean that I dont want to know you.
Lets not chat, shall we? You would not like me on chat I dont like me on chat. I am terrible at chat, and I find it the most boring, repetitive, and frustrating way to try to get to know anyone.
I am looking for a relationship and commitment level that married men and men who already have a subslave generally cannot provide.
I am looking for someone who will also be a companion.

If you have told me almost nothing about yourself that will show that we might also be compatible in vanilla ways (either in your profile or within several messages), then I will wish you success in your search fairly quickly.Please, tell me about yourself! I wont ask a series of questions to dig out ination from you. Neither of us want to feel like I am cross-examining you - it is disrespectful and unpleasant.
If we would not be compatible (have few - if any - common tastesgoalsinterestsvalues), I probably wont continue exploring with you and, again, I will wish you success in your search fairly quickly. I have had too many people get upset with what they call time wasters to want to subject myself to that again.

Please do not expect me to call you on the phonetell you everything about myselfsend you an albums worth of photosetc. before we have exchanged enough messages to know that we are compatible, looking for the same thing, and really wanting to get to know each other.
I am not interested in men who are younger than 40. Sorry.
I cannot relocate to anyplace hot. I dont want to sound even more obnoxious than I am, but Texas is a hard limit.
I might do windows, but I dont have sex outside a committed relationship with a man I love who loves me.

And you really read all that? And still want to talk with me?! Interesting I thought I wassupposed to be the masochist... shaking head in wonderment


7/8/2023 5:35:10 PM: I love some silly YouTube animal videos (baby goats in pyjamas always make me smile). The last one I saw made me think... A dog and a cat were confronted by a huge, scary monster of an insect. Both were afraid of it. The dog backed away and then watched it as entertainment. The cat froze momentarily, and then it attacked the bug. I realised that I am a cat. I have been told that before, but I just realised that I tend to confront things (after I freeze). Well, I also like to be pampered and stroked, of course. And I love dogs! 😊

6/26/2023 11:32:03 AM: i don't understand this at all: so many people choose terrifying names and images for their profiles and then claim to be gentle, patient doms. I am sorry, but I am not comfortable with LordSatanicDocettKiller (made up name) and pictures of skulls and bloody underground concrete rooms. I imagine that there are people who find that exciting, but I am not one of them. Why would people choose names and images like that if they are NOT looking for that kind of arrangement?

3/13/2023 11:42:00 PM: I don't know whether I should even be here, anymore. I feel like I aged 20 years in the last three since COVID. BTW, I mask indoors! Between arthritis, falls, and other health issues, I don't feel physically ideal anymore. I don't think quite as well as I used to, either. 

11/29/2021 11:55:40 AM: So many men are still posting about women they think are guided by 50 Shades of Grey, without having ever read it. If they did, they would realise that no woman bases relationship expectations on what happens in that book. The main character enjoys some kink play, but both she and the multibillionaire Dom acknowledge that she is NOT a submissive. And, while some women may fantasize about a relationship with a young, handsome, affectionate billionaire, noone is expecting to find it here.

11/12/2017 12:17:03 PM: I am always curious about Doms who say that they like or love getting - but not giving - massages. Admittedly, receiving a good massage can work out stress and pains. It can be a luxurious hour that makes a man feel pampered and adored - in a way that almost any man feels comfortable accepting. Perhaps it might also be partly a matter of oversight - or need. I imagine that some men might go through life slightly starved for touch. The simple desire or need to be touched (sexually or nonsexually) might seem so amazing that they forget about (or ignore) how good it feels to give as, too. Because massage is an activity that can be equally wonderful in either role. Touching someone else, in massage, can be work or play. It can feel so good to slide one’s hands or face (or other body parts) across another’s skin. To knead and push and prod. To hear moans and sighs. To feel muscles relaxing under your touch. Clearly, performing a massage is not necessarily only a submissive activity. it can be performed as a matter of topping, control, care, or service. And, finally, when a Dom says that he only likes getting a massage, it makes me wonder how much he likes giving pleasure to his sub. Not all subs are averse to receiving pleasure, you know. :) Admittedly, massage can be painful, too. If you have kept a submissive in certain types of bondage for a while, massaging her can be a delicious way of continuing to give her a mix of pleasure and pain while also maintaining her flexibility and health. “Not a sermon. Just a thought.”

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