Update November: I never understood the term "under consideration" i have seen several profiles with this out there and I really do not understand it. Does it mean that whomever you are dealing with is contemplating having you as their sub,slave,dom,domme,master,mistress. Now if that is the case then why is it that they require or desire all the activities of someone that they are in a committed relationship with. If they just want someone to play with why not just say that. Any woman, man, TS, or whoever you identify with if you are currently under consideration i advise you to hold off on anything kink, sex, or role related until they make up their mind. I guarantee that if you do that they will either make up their mind, call you fake, or move on. No point in nurturing the cow if i can get the milk for free from someone else farm. Please folks wake up to the games. Most women on here have been hurt, scammed, or messed over by a so called dom and then punish the real ones. I guarantee if you put aside your desire long enough to acknowledge the red flags i guarantee that you will see that 95% of doms on here are pretenders looking for sex or have an issue with women that they feel they have to pretend to be something they are not. Ladies you do not have to prove yourself with any naked photos, sex, cam for sex, or anything if several clothed photos is not enough then leave it alone.

Update September: Honestly, What is wrong with the subs/slave on this site. Any dom/domme who contacts you does not owe you anything so don't automatically assume that you belong to them or they want you it is just initial conversation. Desperation is not a trait that is desired nor cute. Learn who you are as a person before you attempt to give yourself to someone else. If you want some cheap thrills then read a book or find some stories. No one is obligated to help you live your fantasies out because you are retarded.

Update August: I find that 98.3% of Dom's/Domme's are fake. regardless of a person's classifcation (slave, sub, switch, Dom, Domme) they are still human first and foremost. When approaching someone calling them names and demanding things of them before the bond is established just makes you a douche. I keep reading profiles about how people are fake and how people are not honest. If you tried talking to some folks like they are human then you may get a more favorable response.

Update: July: I just want to ask a curious question. How come i have so many folks contacting me and expressing that so many domme's on this site are out for their money. I decided to do some research and i looked at about 200 domme profiles and found that 195 of them were for financial domination first, and then they began to berate and degrade the guys that would be interested. Honestly, these type of folks in my opinion are opportunist. If you are truly a Domme then once you capture your subs heart, mind, and body everything else will come including finances. A domme should not depend on her subs/slaves income to live if she does then in my opinion she needs to get her life straight first before trying to manage someone else. Just my thoughts.

Update May: Ladies, i understand that you may have been hurt in the past. However, The present is what matters now. Time does not stop or wait for those that refuse to move on. Being angry and taking it out on someone else or altering your life because of it seems a bit extreme to me. The focus should be on your mental, physical, and emotional health. just remember "crying over spoiled milk will not make it fresh again" so, go to the store and get another gallon or better yet get a cow. 

Update April; Why is it when i run across most of these Domme's they require some sort of financial contribution or have a wish list before they even talk to someone. lol, that is ridiculous if you are interested in someone get to know them instead of just demanding money but, hey i guess if someone does it then get it while you can. Also, why is it that most of these so called master's and Dom's have to think that disrespecting someone in an intial message proves that they are what they claim to be. honestly, it just makes you seem like a douche and probably won't get you any play. Instead of trying to act dominant just be yourself you may even surprise yourself at the results.

Update: March  I see a lot of profiles on here that says they are under consideration by some dom or master. However, they are still engaging in activity that should be reserved for that bond. In that instance you will always be under consideration if he can have the milk without the responsibility of the farm. Think about it to be under consideration means for him to observe all of you and make an informed decision whether to accept you and you observe all of him or her to determine if you will give yourself to him or her. the acts that should be conducted between two individuals who have made a mutual decision to become each others should never occur before the process to amalgamate has been completed. Just my take on the word CONSIDERATION continue with the regularly scheduled program.

Update: February; Please do not think i am being mean i am saying this in the most kind way it can be said. I am not interested in sex with you, your body, your money, moving in, or any other thing that has been done to you. when i send a note it is an introduction of who i am as a person. Furthermore, ladies i am not your ex so please refrain from comparing and treating me as such regardless of how much i remind you of him or anyone in the past that hurt you. I am not interested in how he hurt you just how it affects you now. If you know you are not healed or you have certain issues that prevents you from getting to know a new person without all the baggage or drama then please keep going. do not stop to say hello or send a message because while the past shapes our interactions in the present we are all adults and make decisions that are healthy for us. Thank you kindly.

Update: January; I get a lot of messages from individuals saying that they do not think they would have anything in common with me. i find this difficult to understand because this page or profile does not make me who i am. the questions on here do not even show 1% of the person that i am. just wanted to put that out there because it confused me. but, Thanks to everyone who does respond i am honored that you do even if it to tell me we that we have nothing in common.

Update: December; i will stress this one time and one time only. Just because this website caters to the inner most desires that society may consider taboo. it does not mean when you are contacted that the first conversation should be about what positions, fetishes, fantasies, tools, dungeons, or other things that you may or may not get off on. If you understand that on the other end of that screen is a person and if you treat them as such your chances of getting what you want increase exponentially. I should not have to tell so called DOM/DOMME's/MASTERS OR SLAVES/Sub-missive's this but true dominance and submission starts in the mind first and then the body follows not just for your perverted sexual deviance's. *sorry if i am harsh but getting tired of the ignorance*

Update: November;  A woman told me that i was new and raw simply because i chose to respect her when i sent her my initial note. I did not know that i had to be rude and treat a woman like trash simply because she is a slave/sub. If that is what must be done then i think i may not last long on this site.