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| Its tough to sum it all up in a box. In the end, it comes down to getting to know one another.
What am I looking for? Everything...and nothing. I do have interests, but they do not define me. I enjoy the dynamic of D/s...and I look to meld both of our interests. Its not about the act...its about the intensity that two people can have with communication, honesty, friendship, sharing and respect for each other. First and foremost...its the mental aspect of BDSM that I love....love.
Me? In the 'nilla world...I am originally from Long Island NY. Lived in upstate NY for a while, and New Hampshire. Gave South Carolina a try, and now Im in Gulfport MS and loving it. Love to cook, and let me tell ya, I hate folding fitted sheets. Love to read, love to be active either in work or play. Have a strong interest in history. Single, widowed once, divorced another time. Love to really get to know people. Strongly value friends, and family, communication, laughter, and integrity. Navigating the southern living...
I can be intense, but I always throw good humor and good perspective in there. Been around the block a few times, and learned what I could, and left the rest when needed.
My interests? With the right person, I can have a variety of interests. None of these are a requirement, but it always comes up. Again, for me, its the dynamic between the two. First, I love to be in charge...or, at least, I cant/dont/wont be dominated. Ill listen, but, dont think Im a pushover. Personally, I hate pain myself, but, love to give a good spanking....toys, breast play (strong interest in abf - anr. Other then that? All or most is good. I never judge a person by their kinks...I also dont do the "Im a real Dom" thing...or this is what it means to be a 'real' sub/slave. I am what I am, and only expect you to be what you are.
I want to emphasize....its not the specifics....its dynamic between the two, and this dynamic is, and should be unique to the both.
Power exhange, be it the small to large...is a primary interest. However, in the end, its all about the connection....the intensity. Sure, kink is fun, but there is more to base a relationship on, and Im looking for it all. TPE? Love it.
Communication with me is key. I move mountains for those I believe in. Feel free to say hello...worst that can happen is we waste a few electrons. However, little to nothing can happen with out clear communication. You need to know how to effectively communicate. Yes, I do have a picture. Ill send it upon request. Am I bad looking? Nope....
Yes, I also want 'dating'. Dinner, suprises, romance, .....I dont know, I guess I want it all, and wont setlle.
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