5/30/2016 12:29:01 PM: CLOSING TIMEAPOLOGIES FOR THE PEPTOBISMAL PINK BACKGROUND AND THE UPPER CASE FONT. CS IS NOT BEING EASY FOR ME THIS AFTERNOON. PERHAPS THAT IS SYMBOLIC OF WHAT I HAVE TO SAY AND THE REASON i AM SAYING IT.I THINK ITS TIME TO GO. I'VE BEEN HERE SINCE ABOUT 2006, ALMOST 10 YEARS. I CAME HERE BECAUSE BONDAGE, MY HOME CHAT SERVER, WAS CLOSED IN ONE OF BONDAGE'S PERIODIC MELT DOWNS. WHEN IT REOPENNED I NEVER REALLY WENT BACK. COLLARME IN THOSE DAYS WAS A VERY ROBUST SITE WITH A LOT OF PEOPLE TRULY LIVING THE LIFESTYLE. I MET NUMEROUS GOOD PEOPLE, SOME OF WHOM I WAS LUCKY ENOUGH TO PLAY WITH AND SOME WHO BECAME PARTNERS FOR SOME PERIOD OF TIME. BUT A LOT OF THAT SEEMS GONE. THE POSERS AND THE FAKES AND THE WANNABES ARE IN THE MAJORITY NOW AND MY INTERESTS IN CONTINUING HERE HAVE FADED. THOSE I ENJOYED KNOWING HAVE, IN LARGE PART, CLOSED THEIR ACCOUNTS AND LEFT. I THINK ITS TIME FOR ME TO DO THE SAME. I'M OLDER NOW AND NO LONGER SEEKING. I REALLY DON'T BELONG HERE ANYMORE. FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO TRULY SEEK THE HEART OF THE LIFESTYLE AND SINCERELY ARE LOOKING FOR LONG TERM PARTNERS WHO ARE MORE THAN THE 'TIE TIE/SPANK SPANK' TYPE OF FOLKS, I WISH YOU WELL IN YOUR JOURNEY AND GREAT, GREAT SUCCESS.

12/31/2015 2:24:05 PM: I think it is always appropriate to take a look back and write a farewell to the year. This is mine. 2015 has been a year of contrasts for me, full of hardwork and, actually disassociation from CS. Perhaps the latter is a result of growing maturity (heh) and competing interests represented by family and recreation. Maybe its the result of the kinds of people I seem to meet here anymore. Don't get me wrong; I've met several lovely individuals whose time I enjoy sharing greatly. Its important to remember, I think, the positive people you meet rather than the negative, even though the negative outnumber the positive and are in some cases actually poisonous; in others simply confused or misaligned. At any rate, I do continue to visit CS and its because of the wonderful folks I meet here and in spite of those whose personalities don't work for me. The good outweighs the bad. A happy new year to all. If you are not who you wish you were as yet I hope 2016 brings you closer to that goal. 

5/29/2015 4:04:18 PM: iThere are so many things I love to feel. The delicious brush of a submissive's lips, the heat that arises when I hear the words, 'yes Sir' , the joy of interacting with a lively intellect. All of those and many more. What I don't appreciate feeling is being used. If you thrill to treating other human beings as toilet paper, go elsewhere. Treating me that way is going to be like wiping with a brillo pad. Do yourself a favor. Get that thrill from someone other than me.

5/6/2015 11:25:27 AM: Many submissives complain about dominants who offer them only two or three word messages. I understand that. It shows little respect and almost no sense of value for the recipient. I don't write 'wax up?' Messages and if you write them to me I will find someone else to talk to.

3/25/2012 12:28:29 AM: Photoshop is a true friend to many CMers. Next only to cut, copy, and paste