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I can not believe I have to say this on my profile. I will not for any reason send money to an
Male Dominant, 56,  El Reno, Oklahoma












 Dominant Male

 El Reno 


 6' 3"

 260 lbs





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I can not believe I have to say this on my profile. I will not for any reason send money to anyone. If we decide to be together. I will come get you and move you in with me. If you are a fake or a scammer. Pass me by. You are wasting your time if you think you will get any money from me. Now back to our scheduled program. 


I'm a single dom, who is looking for someone to share my passions with. I have over 15 years of experience in the BDSM lifestyle. I am looking for a long term relationship. I am not opposed to just playing on occasion, but would prefer a relationship. 


I want a sub/slave that wants a 24/7 live in lifestyle relationship. She should want and enjoy sex since I am a very horny bastard. She should want and enjoy pain, since I have a sadistic streak. 


I am very serious about trying to find someone. I am a loving and caring dom, but have no problem making you cry during play. Then I will kiss the tears away after play. I have a sadistic streak. If you want to be hurt till you are a crying ball of goo, I'm your man. I do use safe words and always respect all limits. That will never change. Unless she tells me and shows me that she wants to be a no limit slave. I also will not share her. I will be the only man she has sexual contact with. That is not up for discussion. 



I use whatever it takes to bring out the passion in the one I am playing with. If that is a sensual touch, or bringing lots of pain. I am more than willing and able to do whatever it takes, to make sure my play partner gets what she wants and needs during a scene. 


My play is very sexual. If we play we will be lovers. I know that some think that feelings do not belong in this lifestyle. That is their opinion. I will decide if and how I feel about those in my life. If you are the type that does not want your dom to care about you. Don't worry about it. That is not your decision. Look at what that dom can do for and to you, not how he may or may not feel.


I use punishment when it is needed, and pleasure when it has been earned. I am laid back in my manner. Some seem to mistake this for me being soft. I am not. I am very serious about who and what i am, and the way I expect to be treated, and what I expect from the one who has my attention. 


I am not the type that has to constantly prove I am a dom. I know I am and don't feel the need to prove it all the time. That is why I choose to be more laid back in my manner. I can be very strict, but if I have done my job as a teacher. I don't need to be. One moment you may feel me spanking your sweet ass till it is nice and hot. The next moment I may be covering it with soft kisses. Or if needed I can make sure you are crying for more. If you are a good girl, you will have a good time. If you are a bad girl. You will have a great time.



If you are curious as to why I don't have a fetish list; I have them. What is on my list is some of what I enjoy. I don't want anyone to get the wrong idea about me because of what might or might not be on my fetish list. I will say that I have very few hard limits. That leaves us a lot of room to explore.

Journal Entries:
8/15/2017 10:41:30 AM
Are there not any real subs / slaves left on here anymore? All I ever seem to meet are scammers or fakes.

12/17/2015 2:00:01 PM
It is getting so hard to find anyone real on here anymore. I wonder where all of the real female subs and slaves have gone.

1/22/2015 6:27:53 AM
I am free during the day till 3/1. I am willing to host also. If interested. Let me know.

12/10/2013 2:47:24 AM

Recent events have caused me to think about what I want. This lifestyle offers many activities that both can enjoy. I don't see finding mutual things we enjoy as a problem. My problem as of late, it seems. I want someone that wants to be with me as much as I want to be with her. Maybe that is too much to ask for. I don't know. But that is what I want. It seems my last two "relationship's" just wanted a spank and tickle, not anything more. I guess I want more, I don't know. Does this make any sense to anyone?

9/23/2011 3:04:48 PM

Daddy doms 

I did not write this. I read it somewhere and thought it fit how I think about being a daddy dom is. I can not take credit for it. But I paste it here for you to read. See if it touches you the way it did me. 

Daddy/little girl does not refer to the ages, real or pretend, of the participants. Nor does it imply closet desires. In my relationship my Dom is not my father, he is nothing like my father, and I have no need for him to replace my father. He is however my Daddy. We do not engage in age play specifically (beyond the occasional school girl fantasy *s*) and our relationship is not based on any need to have sex with children. I am always all women, and always a very independent woman.
He does have the ability to make me feel like a little girl, however, a much cherished and sometimes needy little girl. It is a feeling that I revel in, it is the safest place I have ever been, and it allows me the freedom to be all that I am without fear of reprisals. Daddy Dom is a feeling, an environment that two people have created. A Daddy Dom is so named because of the qualities he possesses and the service he provides.
So, what are these qualities? What is a Daddy Dom?
A Daddy Dom wants to be the center of your universe. He wants to be able to provide for your every need and care. But more than that he wants to be able to shape and mold you to the image he thinks you should become. He sees in you someone who can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He believes more in you than you believe in yourself. What he wants in return is to be able to bask in his image of you, the image he has created. To achieve these goals he relies on a combination of love, respect, and discipline.
His love for his little girl goes without saying. He loves her as much for who she is as for who she will become with his guidance. She is his prized possession. His eyes light up when she walks into the room and he takes great pride in her successes. After all, he helped to create her. She holds the tenderest part of his heart and has the greatest power to hurt him.
This love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel pride in his little girl. He needs to know she can hold her own in the outside world and still submit to him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift she has given him and takes great pains to increase its value. It is extremely important to him to know she can be with any man and she chooses to be with him.
He knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, more important than in some other D/s relationships. In order for the little girl to really trust, she must know he means what he says. If his little girl is going to be the best she can possibly be he must stand firm. He uses his experience in life and his knowledge of her to provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises.
If he does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing. If his submissive finds that she can manipulate him out of punishing her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes impeded. He understands that it becomes increasingly difficult to be possessed by someone you do not respect.
This takes great strength on his part. It takes strength to control her, and to shape her to his needs and desires. It takes strength to be her confidant, her shoulder, her anchor. It takes strength to let her out into the world when all he wants to do is hold her safe in his arms. And it takes strength to do what is necessary when she needs to be disciplined.
A Daddy Dom provides something else that is very important to his submissive...acceptance. She is safe in his arms because he knows her, everything about her, and he still loves her. When she goes to him she knows that this man knows all of her dirty little secrets and it doesn’t matter. To him she is beautiful.
Daddy Dom and sadistic Dom are by no means mutually exclusive. Many Daddy Doms embrace their sadism while understanding and feeding their submissive's masochism. This balance is necessary to many little girls because it allows all parts of her to be nourished, leading to an incredibly fulfilling relationship.
I think most Dominants have a bit of the Daddy in them; taking on the role of male authority figure in the submissive’s life and using their power to enrich that life. Daddy/little girl verbalizes that feeling, and adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that its participants crave.
There is something infinitely magical about a Daddy Dom. Perhaps it is something only a little girl can understand.

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