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'Sweat carves a screenplay of discipline and devotion.' - Siouxsie and the Banshees.  
Male Switch, 45,  Tahlequah, Oklahoma


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StraightTransgender Dominant
Age: 35, Height: 5ft 5in (165 cm), Weight: 150 lbs.
Location: phoenix, Arizona
Last on 1/15/18 at 6:16 AM
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StraightFemale Dominant
Age: 38, Height: 5ft 5in (165 cm), Weight: 114 lbs.
Location: Atlanta, Georgia
Last on 2/12/18 at 7:41 AM











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"Sweat carves a screenplay of discipline and devotion." - Siouxsie and the Banshees.




I have always admired, and been attracted to, strong, confident women. I've been interested in BD/sM since I was a teen, but I've never actually participated in such activities. I am a total novice, please bear that in mind. While the physical activities are no doubt stimulating, the mental interplay between Mistress and slave is what attracts me the most to the idea of this life. To be able to wholly submit to a powerful woman, even if for only a short time, is the most compelling part of BD/sM for me. 




Thanks for looking at my profile. I hope to add more detail in the future.




UPDATE: 11-24-15: Whew! A lot of changes since my last update! To begin with, I am no longer in the service of My Beautiful Owner. The tides of life have carried us away from each other. She now lives very far away from me. And as much as I loved and adored being Hers, I did not want to serve a Mistress that I could not be with in real life. Online only service held no attraction for me. And Her relocation came at the same time that I became involved in a serious relationship with someone else. So I asked to be released from the service of My Beautiful Owner. My former Mistress is still someone that is very important to me. And She will always be one of the most influential people and one of the greatest teachers that I have ever had in my life. I still miss Her, but time, coupled with this new relationship, has helping to heal the longing for My Dear Mistress.


This new relationship, though mostly vanilla, is a very serious one, and one that I am trying to devote all of my energy toward. So I am no longer actively looking to meet anyone to "play" with. I am mostly here and on F E T L I F E to keep in touch with friends and to just keep my toe dipped into the world of BDSM that I have enjoyed so.




UPDATE: 05-20-14: I am also on another prominent fetish website as "CitiesInDust". I have a lot more photos there if you'd like to check them out! :-)


Also, I REALLY need to update that first paragraph soon. I have now had a good deal more experience in the lifestyle, thanks to my beautiful, adored Owner.


Today I changed my CollarMe sexuality to bisexual, and my orientation to "switch". I've thought about doing this for a long time, and decided that I shouldn't wait any longer.


I do love women. You could say that I worship the very ground they walk on! ;-) And right now I could only see myself in a deep romantic relationship with a woman.


And I do so love to submit to my wise, wonderful, beautiful Owner. She will always come first. Make no mistake about that. Her wishes and Her desires are more important to me than anything or anyone else. KNOW THIS!


But ever since I was a teen I have been curious about playing around, first with transsexuals, then with "regular" men. I have never had any experience with either. And to be honest, I'm not sure when, or even if, I will be ready to take that step. But I think I should open myself up to that possibility. I could change my mind and delete this tomorrow. I don't know.


Lately I have been taking a more aggressive, if not out-and-out dominant role towards the men ( and even some of the women ) that I fantasize about. I find I quite like the idea of having my very own little cock-sucking bitch on his ( or her ) knees before me!




UPDATE: 10-12-13: I still welcome messages from anyone, but I am no longer actively seeking to meet a Mistress for the purposes of servitude. I am very happy and proud to announce that I am now owned by a most wonderful Owner. I hope that I am able to continue pleasing Her, and that She allows me to serve Her for a very long time. 




WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites ANY purpose - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile content or pictures in ANY form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and may be subject to legal ramifications under applicable state and federal law, including but not limited to copyright statutes.

Journal Entries:
3/3/2014 5:00:42 AM

Yesterday was a very special day for me. I  was allowed to spend the entire day with my beautiful, wise and wonderful Owner.


We played, but we also got to just talk. It meant so much to me to be allowed to spend so much time with my Beautiful Owner. 


And as always, the experience unleashed a wide array of powerful emotions within me. Feelings I might not have faced if not for the intimacy and safe environment provided by my Beautiful Owner.


I am so fortunate to have Her in my life!

1/19/2014 8:36:15 AM

My Beautiful Owner  surprised me yesterday with an inpromptu session. It was amazing. An incredible exchange of sensations, emotions and ideas. i am so fortunate to have found Her. i am so happy to be Hers.


And yes, there will be at least a couple of photos soon. i love to see Her handiwork. i hope any of you that see them will enjoy them too!

12/28/2013 5:24:02 AM

So happy that i was able to spend time with my Owner. She is such an amazing, beautiful and wise Owner. And She really worked me over! You can look at my latest profile photos to see that!

12/22/2013 11:21:17 PM

My Beautiful Owner loves male chastity and orgasm control. With Her advice and guidance i have purchased my first chastity device. i'll post a couple of pictures of me wearing it. i think it looks good on me. What do you think?

11/19/2013 9:02:31 PM

Just had the first live session EVER in my life. Thank You, my Beautiful Owner, for being so patient and understanding with a newbie.

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