Collarspace.com

Horizontal Line
Vertical Line
Horizontal Line

Horizontal Line

MstrWhp

Horizontal Line

Friends:
jen182BrokenChaos

Vertical Line

Ok something about me. I'm very recently widowed as my wife died on 9/12/13. Due to this I won't be around much, not that I got a lot of contact here anyway. If you want to know more just ask. As to my not having a picture on my profile. My wife was the one who always took all the pictures. But mine was always one of those she wanted the right setting for and we just never found it. I'll try to get one up as soon as I can but until I figure out how to link the camera with my computer it may take a bit. Please be understanding if you're interested. I will get you a picture one way or another. If you see that I've recently looked at your profile and/or added you to my favorites it's because something about you interested me. I may or may not have written you because I want you to look over my profile as well. If I see you've looked at my profile I'll write you and see where it goes from there. Understand that due to the above statement I will be going slow. Also I do have a son that lives with me so consider that if you are interested in me as well. Okay, I'm gonna put some statements on here that are gonna piss some of you off. My feelings on that OH WELL. GET OVER YOURSELF. This is how I see the world of bdsm and the different people in it. Prick/Bitch: These type of people think that the world revolves around them. That's a laugh to me. From my experience most of these people end up in jail for abuse charges. They have no self control and in my opinion are a danger to anyone they engage in the lifestyle with. Master/Mistress: These people are in charge of themselfs and know how and when to show it. They are the people that new people to the lifestyle should learn from. Notice I did not say Dom/me. that's coming up next. The confidence that these people exude is a good type. More then likely they have never been accused of being the school yard bully, unlike the first people I mentioned. These people know how to show respect to others and get it from others again unlike the above mentioned people. Dom/me: These people are just a half step below a Master/Mistress. They can relax a bit more I think and again know how to control their impulses. I had a sub accuse me of not being a Dom because I didn't make her get down and suck me off while her kids and mine where right outside the open window when she said she was hungry. My answer to that is no I don't want my kid who was 5 at the time seeing that and having the possibility of going to jail or such because the kids saw it. I keep myself under control and have earned a good reputation within my local community because of it and I have alot of friends that fit into this and the Master/Mistress definitions I've listed here. True switch: Doesn't exist in my opionion. wanting to be a top or botton exactly half the time you do it is pure bull as far as I'm concerned. Look at the next 2 entries and you'll see why I say this. Dom/me with sub tendencies: This is the first of what I call a switch. They like the role of being in control more then they like the feel of the whip. But at times they just can't resist the feel of being the one being controlled. Sub with Dom/me tendencies: this is the opposite of the one just above. They like being the one being controlled more then they like being the one holding the whip. But at times they want to be the one swinging the whip. Submissive: This person likes to have someone control parts of their life but still have a say at least in what happens outside of the bedroom so to speak. Their deals with the above is not as restrictive as what I list after this. Slave, play: this person wants absolutely no say in what happens to them during the times they're in a session. Most of the people I've met in this diion will let the play slip over to some aspects of their normal life but not all of them. Slave, full time: this is not the last of this area. These people still have breaking limits as to what can or can't happen to them and while they set limits there's not alot that can't happen to them. More then likely these people transform themselfs for each person they belong to to some extent but never always. True slave: These people know that they were never meant to be free ever. I have read about one woman who fits this that went to visit a Master/Mistress couple. After getting off the plane and getting into their car they put a collar on her and kept her as a slave in their home for the next 5 years. They sent for her belongings and sold them off. She knew the minute that the collar was put on her she no longer had a choice she was thier property. Now I know this sounds dangerous and it can be. But a true slave doesn't say I won't be this person's property but I will be that persons. They usually have a caretaker but once they've committed they have no limits as to what can happen to them. They no longer get a say in their lifes or what happens to them. If their current owner wants to sell them for money under the table they accept that they're the property of their owner and that they have the right to do this to them. Some women I've read the profiles of call them selfs pregnancy slaves and say they'll give up all rights to the child they carry to their Master/Mistress. I think these types fit in well to this diion. Had to use pregnancy instead of what they call themselfs otherwise as my comp has a problem with the other word. Okay so now you see how I view the lifestyle and my diions of each type. Like I said before if you don't like what I've said I really don't care. They're not your thoughts they're mine so kiss my ass if you don't agree with them. Don't write me complaining about it I don't want to hear it. Also don't write me saying I misspelled a bunch of words. I don't care about that either. I'm not an english teacher and I don't use spell check so bite me. If you find my thoughts interesting and would like to chat about them write me an email here and we can go from there. One other thing that comes to mind that drives me nuts is someone calling themselfs a Dom/me and the first picture you see of them is of them kneeling like a slave, Complete with the back over the heels, knees spread wide and the works. Why in the world if you claim to be a Dom/me or Master/Mistress would you EVER take a picture of yourself in that position. That's just plain stupid to me and makes me wonder if maybe you have an inner disire to be a sub/slave instead. Oh and by the way if you're in africa, recently moved to africa or what ever don't bother writing me. I've gotten to many attempts to scam me out of money from there I won't answer. I'll just report your account and block you. Hope you all have wonderful lifestyle day.

Horizontal Line

8/18/2014 10:22:34 PM
Well still nothing going on here. I'm ramped up my search a bit and contacted a few more subs whom I have put on my favorites list. Maybe, just maybe I'll get a hit. I did get one from a supposed sub but  after 3 emails I was asked to get this person a phone. Wrong answer/question that soon. I find it strange that so many profiles show up here and with in a day or two they're gone. What did they find someone that fast? Did they get bombarded by that many fakes? Did they hide their profile for some reason? that last question I find kind of weird to do if you're coming on here to find someone why the hell would you hide your profile from everyone. My best guess to all this is that the profile was a fake and there fore taken down. Oh well. So want to find someone here who's not a fake and not going to ask for something before I've talked to them for more then a couple of messages. Eh oh well doubt this will even be read.

7/10/2014 6:37:40 PM
Well the search continues. I've talked to a few subs but with no success yet. I thought I had found one but it seems she's playing games. No she's not listed on here and unless I've been talking to you for a bit I won't go into it in much more detail.

5/20/2014 9:23:30 PM

At this point I'm looking for a sub/slave although I'm not opposed to a bisexual female switch who is sub to me and Domme over other women. I know that's rare but that's what I'm looking for. It's been a very long time since I've gotten to do anything with in the lifestyle as you may have seen by my profile. To know more all you have to do is ask but most people just look and go on. I get so tired of that.


Vertical Line

Horizontal Line
Horizontal Line
princess23sasha
 
 Age: 21
  New Mexico