Touched by submissiveness ... because it's a beautiful expression.

I'm very interested in the D/s dynamic as a lifestyle that is not limited to the bedroom, but defines the whole relationship.

I'm not sure how I would qualify myself. Probably as a mix of a Dom, Master, Daddy, Mentor, Teacher, Guide, Guardian, etc. I suppose Mentor is the attitude that leans the most towards my personality. What I'm not is a unstable sadist, aggressor, bully, shouter, etc. Above all I'm just an average guy, at least at the surface, with his strengths and weaknesses who wants to be your friend, companion and/or partner and who is interested in everyday things, find social live very important and is passionate in pursuing his dreams. I try to be a free spirit as I much can be, while still trying to respect other opinions and lifestyles. Something what's not always so easy. 

At the moment it's not really clear to me who or what I'm looking for. I assume it is something you only know when you have found it. It's probably a mix of a sub, slave, cuckquean, little girl, adult baby. but above all a woman! Somebody who knows how to serve and please a man. It should come natural and from the heart! Also somebody who is not afraid to explore new things and to experiment. At the end, life is one big experience project.
Somebody that wants to be my friend, companion and/or partner and who has a strong personality, a personal opinion and can be independent when needed.

Actually the bigger the distance between your sub/slave side and your vanilla side is, the more appealing your are

I believe that real domination can only be reached by earning the respect and the trust of the submissive person and not via aggressive force or any form of negative energy. I'm not that typical egocentric Dom that only thinks about himself once gaining control. Actually the more control you give the more carrying and considerate I will become. This doesn't mean that the level of domination/submissiveness would be weak, in contrary it is the commitment of both that will lead to levels that in no other way could be reached.

So far I had not the luck to be in a long standing relationship with somebody with the same views and interests. That doesn't mean that I'm a complete rookie.

It's dedication and commitment what I'm looking for!

I'm also not a rule fanatic. Rules are made for guidance to reach a certain goal. They can be changed if necessary. Actually I expect that you are spontaneous and creative in the way submission is shown.

I'm also not keen to humiliate somebody just for the fun of it, that does not mean humiliation is not important, actually it is, but it's always a thin line where you walking on. What I'm trying to say is that pain and humiliation always needs to be functional and  in proportion to the context, for example to reach a deeper submission. When applied correctly and at the right times it should have the same  feeling of bounding a hug or kiss has. 

Off course making a girl blushing is a beautiful thing and also very arousing. 

Inflicting non functional pane is not my thing,off course this include everything that jeopardize health.

Not our fetish feelings or kinks will connect us, but rather our common interests and goals in live. I find creative and passionate people very attractive. That's why I'm looking forward to connect with other people (on-line/off-line) with common passions and interests. It's always nice to see an extended profile, otherwise it's really hard to start a conversation. I believe I did my part.

I like the outdoors, sports, technology and much more. If possible I would like to travel as much as I can.

I'm open to any kind of relationship: friendship, open relation, LTR or any tailor made. In general you could say that I'm very demanding but I believe I'm able to give back a lot and hopefully something unique! ;-)

Thanks for reading so far. Looking forward to hear from you.

Also pictures are not mine except the first one, they are just illustrative.