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GrovelingGourmet

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I am a submissive male who is currently committed to a dynamic with a domme. I am however, considering finding a nesting partner relationship who is at least kink and ENM friendly, preferably one who is a non-professional (femme-presenting) dominant looking for an in-person, female-led relationship. I returned to the BDSM/kink community in 2020 after marriage and raising a family. Since then, I've been very active in my local kink community, attending and volunteering at events such as play parties, munches and conferences. I am looking to grow beyond individual play-oriented sessions. I'm seeking a relationship, something that develops, that evolves over time. I wish to really get to know someone in both vanilla and D/s contexts. Playwise, I'm experienced in quite a few kink activities and have an open experimental mindset. The specific activities aren't so much important to me as much as the "connection" or energy dialogue that happens. That said, I'm not seeking a "fetish dispenser": I'm looking for a relationship first, NOT some long 24/7 play session. My limits are not unusual and include involving non-consenters, scat, fin. play, serious injury, and death. I have some softer limits - activities for which I would require a high degree of trust to be present. These include blood, permanent marks, and body modification. In addition to submissive and bottom, I also identify as a sufferer (masochist), primal prey, plaything, and (human) pet. I also crave to be of service. I'm a talented cook and good at cleaning and other domestic duties. I've been told I'm good at massage (especially feet). I'm teaching myself to do pedicures and leather care. Feel free to contact me if this is something you might be interested in exploring or chatting. Please note that I'm not seeking a long-distance relationship -- please be more often than not within the Greater Seattle area.

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12/31/2023 3:18:39 AM

You can also find me under this name on FL... more details there.


12/31/2023 3:18:22 AM

My profile pic and location info is current as of November '23.


12/14/2023 12:07:29 PM

I see a lot of profiles/journals talking about one-liner messages, them being bad -- I dislike them myself.  But are my messages too long?  I wonder "what is the best length?"  I find myself wondering just how much do I need to put in the message that is already in my profile -- giving someone, especially a dominant, a task to go read my profile seems like too much to ask for some people. Sigh.


12/8/2023 5:32:29 PM

Please be (mostly) local to my area (frequent visitors ok).

I've tried long-distance and it just does not work for me.  It's tough enough trying to connect with someone in-person much less over phone, text, email, etc.


12/8/2023 5:31:31 PM

I don't check this site very often, so please forgive me for a delay in responding.

Also, please have something more to say than just a "hi" or "nice profile".  Tell me why it's nice or what you expect in a response.


4/12/2012 10:10:32 PM

Yet another pet peeve:  when member's zip code is nowhere near their posted location!   I try to restrict the user's list I see to people within 50 miles of me - yet I'll see folks halfway across the country show up as only 13 miles away!   When you change your location in your profile, please change your zip code (under My Account) too!


8/3/2011 11:06:49 AM

I work some pretty unusual and tiring hours.  If I've read your email and haven't gotten back to you, it's usually because: I've forgotten to respond, I haven't gotten a chance to respond, the email didn't need a response or didn't merit one (such as with trite one-liners).  If you really want a response, have something more interesting to say than "hey, nice profile" or "wanna hook up?".


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taima123
 
 Age: 22
 Netherlands