Greeting from Madame Dejah Rae I have been looking for the right fit for a while and have learned a lot about just what or who I am looking for to fill the bill. I have come to realize that I am not looking for a Sissy boy type, but a submissive or switch that can still be a man. I don’t want someone that is cuckold or that want to be castrated. That person must like rough play mixed with sensual after play. He must be able to hold his own in the real world and not need a lot of direction outside of the house. This lifestyle is a big part of the relationships, but day to day life needs to work too. Play can be from lite bondage to heavy electrical and whip play. CBT, nipple torture, canes and paddles, wax play maybe even some fire play or needle play. I am interested in expanding our play as we grow and build trust in each other. I am totally not into any kind of water sport, or scat. Forget little play and diapers, both are a big turn off for me, so don’t even ask. I do travel for work, so I don’t know where I might be at any particular time. I am looking for something long term, tired of the whole one night stand. Just can’t get to know any one that way, I am not even sure how can you build any trust that way? I do understand that it might be a relationship that will have breaks in time because of work, unless you can or are willing to support me. So if this sparks anything when you read this post send me a message.