Collarspace

Domination and submission, to me, is the most powerful aphrodisiac I have ever discovered. When I say that, it means when I am being guided by a dominant, by words by acts, by subtle cues, by protocol, by simply surrendering control, its intensely erotic. Submission has found me, organically in the majority of relationships. It was discovered, not usually solicited or coerced. Yes, serendipity is my favorite word.

That said, the act of power exchange has only been truly erotic when some sort of rapport and connection has been established first. Its not just about sex. Its more than that, feeding an emotional need right to the core of my being.

There are an infinite number of kinks out there, and were all evolving, revolving and sometimes devolving as we navigate the maze of relationships and kink at the same time. I have found in vanilla relationships I always have some desire for kink and during intimate times, my mind wanders to places my partner is either not willing or able to go to... but they dont need to know that, if they arent ready to recognize its power.

Ive got a fair amount of experience and can tell the reader of this a few things about myself. Im naturally submissive, but in the vanilla world have some hefty charges. I have had varied experience in the position of a sub, and found I thrive in mutually understood role(s), with overtones of nurturing and of course, communication. I do not top from the bottom, though I have to catch myself at times ). I have switched and enjoyed it, though its just not as fulfilling for me at least, being on the other side. But it has been fun, having some good ideas what I would like being the sub. Lets just say its rewarding seeing the other person enjoy it. I also simply enjoyed sex and intimacy without any Ds undertones. A great kiss is the sexiest thing ever made, and theres nothing like a great fuck. Oh, and I love giving head and getting it too. And edging... yum. I have endured and enjoyed it for hours at a time. Given that, though, Im not much of a masochist. For me, a little pain goes a long way. That probably eliminates a ton of potential playmates, Im sure.

I gravitate towards monogamy. Truth and honesty is paramount, and I haveittle tolerance for drama.

Thats a quick write up about me for now, Ill come back and refine things as I have time and can think of ways to shorten it and things to expand on. Kink on, and ask me anything.