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Stepford4Me
Hetero Male, 49, South Dakota 
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Stepford4Me


The concept of Stepford can be summed up in one word and that is obedience. My version of Stepford consists of this underlying trait along with femininity, common sense, a pleasing personality, an interest in what I enjoy, charismatic, and possesses the ability for both stimulating and creative conversation.



Your goals are my goals. Your dreams are my dreams interwoven with small pieces of what would bring you happiness should I approve. Your mannerism, your dress, your vocation should I will it, shall be determined by me.



Feminists are neither appreciated nor accepted. I do not want to hear how you are not a mindless drone. Men in general are not attracted to women who need to both assert themself or prove they are better than a man. Any woman who takes this path is unfulfilled.



Do not contact me other than to tell me what you have to offer and in what areas you seek improvement. What I am looking for goes so much deeper than the physical. The cerebral and emotional connections are more important. Chemistry is based on your ability to surrender and how far you will go in your transformation given that you have the basic building blocks necessary for the journey.



It has taken me some time and needed reflection to search deep within in order to determine just what kind of woman is right for me. Anything less than what I describe simply will not suffice. I crave power over you and I will take it by whatever means necessary. I crave your essence which I will further mold and partake of its pleasure because it belongs to me. I strive to better myself and I am always a work in progress as you shall be.



You need my strength, my wisdom and my guidance. You accept the discipline necessary to carry out my wishes. You take this matter so seriously that you are ready to move forward immediately and not draw this out unnecessarily. You are firm in flesh, vibrant, and positive.



I do not know if such a woman exists here but one never knows. There is more that will be added. This is just to give you a preliminary glimpse of what to expect. Lets talk about us and what we can mean to each other.
12/14/2014 10:52:08 PM: To clear up any confusion, Florida is my next planned destination. I will have been where I am currently for 2 years in February and It's time to move on. I can relocate anywhere in the U.S. and would for the right woman until it was time we moved on together.

3/25/2011 4:19:38 PM: Warning.  This is not a rant or a tirade.  Anyone who responds to this entry as such is both an idiot and too absorbed with the story inside their head to actually understand what they have read.  Take it for what it's worth and do not embarrass yourself by responding in anger.  You have been warned.       I have been loved and I have been in love.  What I do know is that without the 'lifestyle', fetish of BDSM, or even the D/s element, a woman will follow a man blindly because her emotions allow her to trust.  There is no greater feeling than being truly loved by a woman.  These questions remain.  How do you make the feeling last?   Is love sustainable?  What happens when the honeymoon is over?  How do you develop love further?  When is the love too much to live up to?     Love is a funny thing.  We can't help what the heart wants nor can we deny or ignore it.  Some are more ridiculous in their ideology about love than others.  Some carry a qualifying checklist and each item must be scrutinized before being selected.  Until all items on this list are checked off then this person can't be in love; or can they?   Love holds no rationale.  It can hit you like a lighting bolt or it can simmer longer than the finest of culinary dishes where the elements meld after a certain amount of time, each contributing to the symphony of delight that dances on your taste buds.  These elements alone can be liked, tolerated or even disliked, but when the elements meld they transform into that which was once thought impossible or unimaginable.  The same goes for relationship and love.   How often have you heard of someone falling in love with someone they wouldn't or didn't notice the first time around?  How many women fell in love after being pursued and conquered?  How many were drawn to the man who simply ignored them?  How many fell in love with the man they could not control, or the intelligent man, or the kind man, or even the primal male?  Alpha, Theta, Delta, Beta, Omega.....it doesn't really matter.  What matters are the fundamental principles of obtaining or already possessing the elements of each.  For those of you who catch on to the pun referenced by this Greek anthology then I applaud you.  Things randomly enter my mind and I simply go with it.  This has served me extremely well in life.   Society today has veered from the accepted ideologies of ancient civilizations.  Modern day liberalism, female empowerment, bleeding hearts who have gained control of the masses and others have distorted the realities that one can not ignore.  No matter how many times a girl is told to be one way, she can not rid herself of that which is deeply embedded into her psyche.  Those who go against this natural phenomena are simply lost or confused.  Women in the context of life are simply not dominant.  Some are strong while others remain weaker.  Some appear more masculine while others appear feminine.  Some appear to be domineering when all they are is afraid, hurt, etc.  They live in fear and constant turmoil.  A good percentage are merely acting out that which is missing in their life.  They need a man stronger than themselves.  Some cry at night while others manifest their frustration and project it into their daily lives.   There is a distinct difference that I have yet failed to see in any topic regarding the fetish of BDSM or the M/s dynamic.  Yes, these are the fetish aspect and not the reality of any dynamic.  The reality dictates D/s as this is the natural interaction between two or more people.  All other dynamics fail the reality and long term sustainability test.  The distinct difference I referred to earlier is simply one word; testosterone.  Yes ladies and gentlemen, no matter what neurosis is layered on top of the bottom line element, it still can not be denied that what makes males and females different is a simple hormone which inherently dominates the intellect, emotion and even spirituality of the man.    Neither men nor women can avoid or deny no matter how hard they try.  This has nothing to do with penis or vagina.  Imagine the devastation of males having vaginas for a moment.  A man with a penis is hard enough (no pun intended).  Now imagine a man having the one thing he envies only in the sense that he doesn't need stimulation, or recuperation to make it work.  A vagina is low maintenance and can be lubricated and ready to go in a very short time and can be used repeatedly.  A man who develops a sore vagina would simply bear the pain because his testosterone would keep him active until the point where he believes it could actually be broken.  Please don't  add any elements of reproduction or child bearing as this is not the purpose of the statement.  Simply switch one sex organ for the other and keep the hormone as is and there would be a literal blood bath enveloped in chaos.  Men would be uncontrollable.  Nature has provided checks and balances so we must all be grateful.    Let's go back to the fetish aspect for  a moment.  I see many confused people claiming to be something they are not or searching for something they simply have no clue of.  I won't even refer to the countless fakes.  First, let's set the record straight.  You are on a fetish website and everyone here wants sex.  Sex is a natural part of life.  If this were a g rated site then you wouldn't be bombarded by offers of sex.  Second, as I stated earlier, many are simply confused as to what they should be looking for or how to find it.  This is not their fault for the most part.  They are simply uninformed.  Third, there are the predators.  Predators exist everywhere and have been here since the beginning.  Your profile claiming to be slave, etc. talking about sex or how you're going to serve a man is simply fuel any predator needs.  This is a crapshoot.   There are many dysfunctional people on these sites and guess what?  The sheer number of these people are the same as before the invention of the internet.  The only difference is there is now an outlet and the potential to hit a vast number of people never thought possible before.  Deal with it.  Get over it and move on.  No one wants to read about your complaints.   I almost forgot to expand on the fetish aspect.  No matter how you label yourself or what you claim, there is no such thing as a Master or slave.  These are fetish terms attempting to emulate that which simply no longer exists in modern society.  Slavery still exists in the world where people are exploited, murdered, raped, bought and sold.  Do you wish to live in this world?  If so, I can give you a few countries to visit and upon your arrival I can guarantee that you will not be viewed as  a Master.  BDSM is a fetish pure and simple.  You can not live  BDSM outside the parameters of your private life no matter how hard you try.  The acronym alone should give you a clue as to whether or not this is sustainable.  The M/s dynamic is also a fetish and is not sustainable.  There is only D/s when it comes to relationship when talked about in this dynamic.  Dominance and submission exist both in the 'lifestyle' fetish and the real world.  D/s exists in every interaction.  There is no such thing as two people who are equally dominant or equally submissive.  One must always defer to the other for there to be a transaction.  There can be no two leaders and no two followers.  Nothing would ever get accomplished.  Again, nature has asserted her checks and balances.  This is nothing to fear.  In fact, this is to be embraced as it would make the world and your relationship a much happier place.   I'm sure that I will have more to say at a later date.  Sometimes I reflect too much and then it becomes necessary for me to express myself.  I have been on this site for years and have endured the same nonsense as everyone else and have my own horror stories and yet we still endure the obvious fakes and idiots who have gathered upon our shores demanding to be recognized as equals.  Do your part to make this a more inhospitable environment for these parasites.   My next expression is probably going to come in the form of people who simply are too fat and lazy to get a real life and expect people to accept them as they are.  I might have to do a bit more research into the mental illness aspect of this, but probably not. We shall see.   My next expression after that will probably be about women and their fantasy of what a dominant male is and how he should have all this money and positions of power.  Again, no one knows anything of history or how the world works.  This is a sad day indeed.    

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