I’ve been into the lifestyle for awhile now, but I'm constantly evolving and figuring out myself and what I like. I label myself a switch. Though I find myself eager to explore more of my submissive side, but it takes the right person to to submit to. I often find myself adapting to fit what is missing in those around me. If I'm with several other submissives and there is a lack of direction in the group I must step up and take control of the situation. The opposite is true if the tables are turned.
As a Dominant:
Most of my experience as a Dominant has been as a primal top. I enjoy a lot of physical control in the bedroom with a submissive. I like to throw down, pin and control, pick up and press up against, and get verbal and rough and just utterly dominate. I've not had the chance as of yet to try a more al dominant role with any sort of contracts or agreements, expectations, tasks etc.
As a Submissive:
I'm very much more into a al relationship extending beyond the bedroom. A relationship built on respect and admiration. I like to be challenged with tasks, goals and have set expectations. I like to give up a large amount of control over a variety of things. I also like to be broken down and built back up, whether that's getting into my head through degrading and humiliating, or through anything dehumanizing, and then put back together again stronger and as a better sub to my dom.