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MistressRen

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Friends:
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Something to ponder before you read my profile

Gentlemen submissives - many of you have asked me how you can meet a Domme. You all wonder how to approach her online, and you seek my advice......here are my words of wisdom

1) Get rid of the dick pics. Dommes want to get to know YOU first. Theres nothing sexy about opening an email and being greeted by your boner. Keep it under wraps until a Domme gets to know you better. Send a nice photo - the kind Grandma would approve of.

2) BE YOURSELF. Not a groveling, begging, whiny, desperate horny submissive who will do ANYTHING to have a partner. BE YOURSELF. Share your non-BDSM likes and dislikes, share your non-BDSM dreams, tell Dommes your non-BDSM passions.....and show an interest in her as a WOMAN and not just as a Domme who will fulfill your desires.

A BDSM partnership is a relationship, and should begin like all relationships......after all, if you saw a cute girl in church, you wouldnt walk up to her, flash your dick, and immediately ask her to tie you up and deny you an orgasm, would you?? Exactly.

On to my profile



I am Ren, 53, a married Dominant originally from Boston, now living in the Columbia, South Carolina area with my wonderful husbandpartner, lafayetteRen. My husband and I moved to the area from Maine, and - while not seeking additional partners due to family commitments - we would love to meet like-minded friends. We have not yet explored the local munches (again - family obligations), but hope to do so soon. )

****Before we continue, let me repeat that one above sentence I am **NOT** seeking additional partners. If you are looking for a Mistress, play partner, live in position, one night stand, etc., you might as well move on to the next profile and save yourself - and me - some time*****

I am the former owner of the CUFSmaine BDSM Outreach and Education group (Portland, Maine), which ran from 1996 to 2006. The group not only offered opportunities for like-minded individuals to meet and feel less isolated, it also taught BDSM safety as well as other educational classes, and initiated BDSM vs. DomesticPartner Abuse outreach to local police departments, area hospitals, and various social service agencies throughout southern Maine.

BDSM Education and safety is a passion of mine that I hope to continue in a few years. Aside from BDSM technique and relationship classes, I also teach sexual assault prevention.

I look forward to keeping in touch with old friends, and meeting new ones in the Columbia area. )

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HerselfTheElf
 
 Age: 43
 Salinas, California