How else are you going to meet people ...... unless you say Hello.

I am an experienced Dom, who seeks a mature submissive/bottom lady, and one who is a good communicator. I care not to be one who has to read another’s mind, thoughts, likes, dislikes, wants and needs.

If you cant enjoy and relate to the Art of Erotica, in Words, Scenes, and Writtings ... then continue on viewing others .... as their is nothing more to see here .

I believe in ones access to voice, rights and choice and again why communication skills are utmost important. To expand upon this, My priority is in search of a Submissive. A "Daddys Girl" is a option and consideration.

My search and interests in the lifestyle are for a "Submissive" who desires to be an equal in Nilla, and knows when and how to "Transfer the Power"

She must have a sense of independency, be intelligent, and have interests in life beyond BDSM. I am not one who cares to have a Sub who is a cling on and or requires her Dom's attention 24/7/12.

This is the foundation and basis from which D/s can build a "Framework" that is loving, trusting, passionate, and a exploratory venture in pleasuring and pleasing each other in a total and fulfilling manner.

It is mandatory that both Dom and Sub have a open, trusting dialogue to avert situations of "Wrong Assumptions."

Within the qualities of a submissive ..the lady must be self respecting, elegant, and one who takes pride in her femininity and sensuality ...... I believe two people can weave a tapestry that blends both "Vanilla and the alt.lifestyle" within their day to day life ..... simply meaning when the senses reveal the desire to please and be pleasured .... it happens naturally and not via a time frame etc. She must also have appreciation for his acts of Chivalry, Romance, His Seduction and desire to please and be pleasured in return.

You can learn more about my BDSM Interests and desires by joining me in a open discussion about each of our real life experiences and those Protocols, Roles, Acts, Scenes that appeal to both.

If you are married, declare that up front, as this is one of my Hard Lines. If you are involved in a Poly Relationship, be prepared to openly discuss the agreements within this relationship.

I also request that you have a photo available. If you elect to not post a public photo, then I suggest you provide a photo via private mail, no photo the interest level drops immediately.

Liking the Visual Arts is a major plus.

I am one who does not associate my sub with Sexual objectification. I respond with the belief that each person must be respected for their emotions and feelings, and not viewed as a "Object". I am one who pleasures in "BodyWorship ... mainly adoring your body"

I read many sub/slave journals and profiles that comment about the "Thin" emails they receive and what little is shared about the person sending the note.

On the other hand its a two way street, in how some sub/slaves do not have the same social grace, to simply remit a "Thank You" for a respectful note of introduction along with a return statement of "Interest or Non-Interest."

I am one who does NOT subscribe to today's throw away society. Each person has value, in one shape or form, and is to be respected as such.

I'm sure if you looked at the "Collar Me Used Collar Table" you will find that the time worn is liking to a used car lot advertising "This car was driven by a little ole lady to only go to church or grocery shopping .. low mileage and whistle clean"

If you can't show or demonstrate some sense of "Initial Respect" it strongly suggests a questionable respect factor throughout.

Making one question the "Sincerity" of what is stated within their profiles.

I also suggest that if you are only interested in Locals Only, and NOT for developing friends to state as such in your bio, thus being true to yourself and others who might find you appealing and of interest.

I respect those who state they will consider relocation, butt in all candor its an option for the future if interest and compatibility are mutual, butt not as a "Initial Interest & Desire" as it may appear as a desparation gesture to be accepted & cared for, with no means of self support.

Your first impression is the lasting impression ... as we don't get a second chance in making a first impression...

Some aspects of my Dom Persona:

Add 1 part Chivalry to 1 part Romance & Charm to 1 part Erotica ...let the ingredients simmer within her mental and emotional state of submissiveness and soon it will rise ...... and seduction will be appetizing to their desires and fullfillment.

Astrological Profile: On the Cusp of Both

SAGITTARIUS: The Sexy One Spontaneous. Horny. Freak in Bed. High appeal. Rare to find. Great when found. Loves being in long relationships. The one. So much love to give. Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique sexiness. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in Bed..!!! Did I say Amazing in Bed? Not the kind of person you wanna FIGHT with - you might end up crying..