If things feel a little wrong about how you fit in the world, maybe a new approach might be in order, perhaps a spiritual quest.

Is the idea of disciplinology one of those self-important self-indulgent bdsm things? I hope not. Is it, as its name implies, the study of discipline. Kind of. A discipline is how we refer to a branch of knowledge, an approach. This is what i have in mind. And of course, discipline also refers to a method of shaping behavior. Yes, that too.

Yeah, I'm older. I will not gloss it over with fables about age being just a number, or some self-aggrandizing platitudes about the supposed wisdom older people have, and all of that nonsense. But I have yet to become a gray-haired, wrinkled man who has that old guy smell. I am strong and reasonably attractive. But I will also not deny that age has given me some things. It has allowed me to be dispassionate enough to give you what you want or need, but also experienced enough to know that the places you've been, the things you've seen, have deep meaning that drive your need for release. Through discipline, spankings, or other s of guidance, I'll take responsibility for your fears and see you through to a safer ground.

Discipline does not always have to mean spankings. It can be guidance, mentoring, measures of control, whatever moves you from the place you are stuck in to a safer ground where you will feel more comfortable. In all cases, your treatment will be real. The spankings will hurt as much as they need to, your guidance will likewise be as strict as necessary, but so too will the nurturiung and the comfort afforded by being in a safer place. Indeed, if you have acted out due to past trauma or bad experiences in your life, you might be ready to find a place where you can be nurtured while you search for closure and prepare to move forward. The spankings can also be attached to anything, but only something that fulfills a need without any further analysis. 

If you're a woman who thinks there just might be something missing, who has drifted through life aimlessly flitting from one thing to another, until one day she came to understand that her needs indicated that she needs a little something more, then perhaps you should write. You should drop me a note if in the depths of these feelings, there is that nagging feeling that everything would be right if you could just find someone who could see you for who you are, if you could only find someone who might at least try to understand those deep desires. This person that recognizes herself might be a strong woman, an accomplished woman, and she probably is. Or at least, she knows that she could be a strong powerful woman if only someone would take her by the hand and help her up.

The dimensions of the relationship are undefined because you're not here and we do not know each other. I could be your occssional disciplinarian and coach, a place for goal-oriented correction and encouragement--and adjunct to your wider life--but it could also develop into love or romance or an abiding firendship. Or as mentioned before, something that has amorphic dimensions, dispassionatly unattached to anything beyond the experince: occasional meetings that are just spankings for the sake of spankings. Yes, that. Those dimensions are to be defined if and when a dialogue is establsihed, and we do, in fact, meet. 

if you have read this far, you may be either interested or bemused (or have too much time on your hands) but whatever it is, I'll mention a few more things: I do not smoke, drink or do any kind or rec drugs -- but I'm ok with the first two in moderation. I have many of what we like to call vanilla interests, even if some or most of those might be colored by what this profile talks about. I like love and laughter and enjoy humor, and playfulness, I am rarely -- if practically ever -- angry about anything. Life is too short to waste it on that. I have been in and out of various bdsm modalities, and if your needs or interests go beyond what is mentioned here, I'm sure we'll potentially find a place and a space that fits for you.

I've done enough talking. your turn.