Collarspace

Black humor, ditsy, loyal to a fault, tolerant, slow to anger, often exasperated, open minded, illogically rational. Huge book worm, avid gamer, love to debate. Can be extremely stubborn but despise strife.Now and then I can be a real brat but its not that I mean to be. The brattiness in me just needs to break free once in a while. I dont do it to be a bitch so I suppose patience is a must on your part.Do not expect me to a be a knock out because Im not. Im not perfect size 6 with curves at all the right places. Im comfy in my skin and thats all that counts for me.Im a pretty average person with some very strange interestsSome of my non-vanilla interests include rope bondage (i found my passion for shibari finally), OTK, floggers, and total power exchange and whatever else is on my interest list in this profile.Looks arent important to me but the attitude is. Experience is a must since I cant be properly taught by someone who has no clue as to what they are doing. You should be confident in yourself and your abilities and well get along just fine. We should share some of the same interests (well find out what those are as soon as you write me), and I would like someone that is local and not on the other side of the continent or the state since travel can sometimes be difficult for me.If you are going to waste my time please dont contact me. I have little or no patience with pretenders and wannabees. My time is precious to me and I dont like to have it wasted. And the constant disappointment can really wear a persons confidence down.Sending me a picture of your genitals is a big no-no... your genitals is not what Im interested in... if thats all I wanted there are easier ways of getting those than putting up an ad on here. One-liner are a big NO too... would you take someone serious who wrote to you and the letter went something like this... Hi, my name is Bob... I think you are hot and Im a great Dom... I think we are compatible...? ummm... NO! So unless you have a basic grasp of the English language and can string more than a dozen words together in a letter dont waste my time (notice how I repeat that a few times... that should give you a hint on how serious I am about this). Im not saying my grammar is perfect but I do think my time is worth more than one sentence.I work a ridiculous amount of hours so you need to know right off the top that I cant drop everything Im doing at any given time and come running. Thats not how Im wired and thats not how my life works.