Ok, so after some input from others, I think i understand the CM mentallity just alittle better..
Seems those in the culture of CM tend to have more of a need for instant gratification and immediate satisfaction, which isnt completely out of line with the real world. But i do think its a larger percentage on here that desire that instant fix.
Then others (women mostly, I think) tend to be inundated with emails and correspondence and it appears unless someone is super outstanding or "special" in some what there is a tendancy to forget who you have talked with or at least had your attention modified for the moment anyway.
Regardless of the accuracy of my brief scientific study, I do now have more faith in the minions of CM than previously.....that does not discount the large number of fakes and just wanna bes......
as always I welcome any feed back both negative and positive