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Hi. I am 52, and I am not a typical guy. I guess I am kind of a geek. I am not a sports fan. I am a fan of British comedy. I like simple things like walking (with an audiobook or Britcom program), reading, bike riding, day trips to quiet places with interesting stores to browse, a weekend at a BB, that sort of thing. On the adult side, I am dominant, but not to any extreme. I like spanking and hair pulling and such, but no heavy BDSM. Simply put, in the bedroom (or living room, or kitchen, or garage...) I am the man and you are the bitch. You do as told or you will be punished. Of course, I understand that sometimes you might just WANT to be punished! That said, I suppose I should be clear that I absolutely do respect your limits. I do consider BDSM to be basically sexual in nature I generally think of spanking and other domestic discipline as foreplay. 8 or 9 out of 10 times, if I tell you to get your pants down for a spanking, you can count on the spanking being followed by oral, vaginal, andor anal sex. I know not everyone shares this view and it is not my intention to say This is what BDSM means for me and therefore what it MUST mean for everyone! Its just how I roll, as much as I hate that expression. But I have had people say, BDSM is not about sex, it is about a mental and emotional connection yada yada... Fine, if thats what it is for you I have no problem with that, good for you. For ME it is primarily sexual. I dont want to offend anyone but I tend to view the whole My master is Shadowlord and I am his sub desires kiss and we are emotionally bonded by a tune that plays in both our hearts and he wears all black and I kneel before him and accept his collar... as being dramatic nonsense. I graduated high school some 28 years ago and prefer to leave that kind of thing back there. Just keep it real. Well, I hope this sounds like the kind of guy you want to get to know - but I doubt it.