Have you ever wondered what you have been doing here on collarme all this time?

Well maybe to find my profile, things dont just happen! Things happen just 

My name is Bram, i am Dutch but live between Spain and Holland.

*November 2021, Now also available in Florida*

There are so many brave woman on here who want to make their first steps in this beautifull world called BDSM. Sometimes it took them years to be alble to do that. For social or family reasons or just because they were just to young.

Bottomline is that what ever the reason, you have been living for years with feelings you couldnt explain and were affraid to talk about. You know what i am saying here dont you?!

And then you come here, tip your feet in, and right away its been bit off by all theseself pronouncedalpha male wolves.

Something you have been longing for so long, right away has a bad taste. You are treaded like dirt, a whore. Obviously this is not a true reflection of BDSM! Keep that in mind!

Subs and slaves are no bitches or whores, they are VERY BRAVE WOMEN who dare to accept their true selves! Brave because most woman are submissive, but most of them wont accept it or make the step you made right now, comming here.

You are one of these brave womenand i am going to tell you to have patience here, you will find him in the end. Whatever you are looking for!

But let me explain you something. Like in normal lovelife, it wontbe the first one! Thats normal, because like in normal lovelife you dont know yet what you are looking for. Thats because you are not experienced in this world.

An another thing is that most Masters (here) are looking for a certain type of slave slave. Because the lack of experience you dont know if you are that certain slave.

You could try obviously, but chances are that you will have to break off because he want more of you than you are comfortable with, or he wants it to quick.

So....you ask yourself...what the F**** am i doing here then? Thats where i come in.

I am not looking for anything but i am always looking around!

The ones who want to be found will be found by me. Yes you read it right..i said...the ones (plural)! That is because i am not looking for a relationship or owning my own slave. Been there, done that. But i consider my experience to valiable to waste. I am a Trainer!



I train women according to there own wishlist and speed to become the sub or slave they want to become! Once trained and experienced you can go out there and negociate your position.

Simply because now you know who you really are and what you really are looking for.

Now why is my name Traininholiday? Simple, i train you during a holiday in sunny Spain. So even if you cant talk about anyone about your feelings, they wont look disturbed if you tell them you are going on a holiday or short city break -)

Bram