Welcome to my world

I am searching (as we all are) for that which makes me happy, contented, excited, proud, thrilled...

So, I find it a little challenging to say what I am looking for.  There are many things that I can find in a woman that make me smile.  Here are a few; intellect, submission, TPE, the gift, eyes, trust, adoration, respect, obedience, tolerance, beauty, the look in your eyes as that point is reached where you realize that I know what you want me to do to you.

Now as to the question of what turns me on.  Everything to some degree, but the base of it is the willingness to let loose, surrender to the need, to give me the gift of doing what I want to do (knowing that that is exactly the thing that makes you happy).  I like to exhibit this through all things BDSM related.  The specific activities that I would engage in would be tailored to meet the needs of my sub and my desires.  I can be the one that pushes your pain threshold to new heights but also be the man that leads you in the right direction through her life.

I truly love the visuals of well done bondage as well as the effect.

All of that said, I really want to use, to push and to control, to teach and to punish, to share and to exhaust.

I am not your typical DOM, I consider myself a true 'Gentleman DOM'.  Don't get me wrong DOM is who I am, I just have an interesting, cerebral way about it....

Anyway, thanks for stopping by my world.