Hello. I am seeking a strong, attractive woman in the Richmond, VA area. I am a very experienced switch who has spent many years trying to figure out exactly where his place is in this whole BDSM dynamic and who thinks he finally have a handle on who he is.

What I seek is a woman who desires a man for companionship and amusement. Basically a woman who understands that although the BDSM dynamic is fun and intoxicating, real life can match it if you work. In short, I am looking for that key emotional connection.As to my history in BDSM, I have just about tried everything out there to one degree or another, from introducing BDSM play into vanilla relationships (not always so tasty) to playing in a more lifestyle based arena with very dynamic partners. My physical experiences are vast, and I am very open minded with respect to those things I have not done, or for that matter new ideas as I dont believe everything has been discovered yet, either.