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The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet - Definitions

Allies are persons who are supportive of the LGBTQQIP2SAA persons in their life as well as the broader LGBTQQIP2SAA community.
How you can be an ally:
Be open-minded. Be a listener. Be willing to talk.
Be inclusive and invite LGBTQQIP2SAA friends to spend time with your friends and family.
Don't make the assumption that your friends and co-workers are not lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, pansexual, two spirit, or asexual. Someone close to you could be looking for support in their coming-out process. Not making assumptions will help to give them the space they need to turn to you for support and affirmation.
Anti-LGBTQQIP2SAA comments and jokes are hurtful and they are harmful. Make it clear to your friends, family, and co-workers that you find them offensive.
Confront your own prejudices and biases even as you find
it uncomfortable to do so.
Defend your LGBTQQIP2SAA friends against discrimination realizing that all persons regardless of gender identity or sexual orientation deserve to be treated
with dignity and respect.

An acronym for the words Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism. Over time the word BDSM has grown beyond it's literal meaning to become emblematic for a diverse, gender-inclusive community, the BDSM Community.

Coming Out
Sharing one's gender identity with friends, family, and acquaintances.

Dressing in a manner which stands at variance with the gender identity assigned to a person by society. A common misnomer is that cross-dressing relates only to trans women.

Day of Remembrance
Violence against the transgender community is more pervasive than is many people realize. November 20th is the day when we pay tribute to the members
of the community who have been taken from us.

Gender Non Conforming (GNC)
Expressing one's gender identity in a manner which is not in keeping with expectations.
Casual meetings for members of a local BDSM community. Munches are generally open to anyone who wishes to attend and provide a means for existing community members to keep in touch as well as welcoming new persons into the community.
Embracing qualities typically associated with more than one gender identity.
Engaging in BDSM activities.
Play Party
A gathering where persons holding an interest in BDSM meet to socalize and engage in BDSM activities.

A system of exclusion imposed on persons based upon their size or weight. When evaluating potential partners on Collarspace it's important to keep in mind that amazing people come in all shapes and sizes.

Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC)
A conrnerstone principle of the community premised upon ensuring that
BDSM activities are consensual and carried out in a manner which protects
all participants from any manner of harm.

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