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"......when I have so corrupted this fragile thing and brought out a writhing, mewling, bucking, wanton whore for my enjoyment and pleasure.....enticing from within this feral lioness...growling and scratching and biting...taking everything I dish out to her.....at that moment she is never more beautiful to me." ~ Marquis de Sade
Hello and welcome to the world of me.
I took the time to consider what I want and what I offer when I wrote this profile, so please take the time to read it.
The Short Profile -
There's quite a lot to read in my profile, and it can look intimidating, so here's a summary.
The information is there so that you have a clear idea about who I am, what I want, what I offer, what I don't want, what I expect.
I'm just as comfortable helping beginners to the BDSM world find their way or talking about whatever comes to mind, as I am discussing and exploring socially "unacceptable" interests and taboos.
Chat to me, Email me, Meet me.
Then decide for yourself how Wonderful I am......Or am not.
The main rule I abide by is that you don't mess me about - be honest and open with me, don't lie to or try to deceive me, do treat me with basic respect, be courteous, make time for me, communicate with me.
There's no justification for crap behaviour.
My Role -
Although I wouldn't class myself as "living the lifestyle" or being a 24/7 Sir, I enjoy and appreciate erotica, deviancy and the Sir/Toy dynamic on a regular basis throughout the day.
UK based playmates are encouraged to interact with me several times a day by text and/or email.
Distance Play -
Distance Play requires more respect, discipline and communication because of the lack of face-to-face interaction and participation.
I am committed to regular, entertaining communication and occasional flesh-on-flesh enjoyment - and I expect you to be, too.
Roles -
Although I consider myself dominant, My role & yours are fluid - Sir, Dominant, Master, Mentor, Lover, Daddy & submissive, slave, toy, puppy, slut, little, plaything. To name but a few.
My default title of Sir denotes accepting the broad roles we have adopted - I lead, you follow.
My Ideal Person
Your size, skin colour, looks, background, race, job or kinks are not important to me...Kinkiness and erotica, translating that into words or actions, exploring the boundaries and communicating that with me are the traits I'm looking for.
Whatever your level of experience, I'm sure we can entertain each other with conversations or emails about a variety of topics - or playing out our dark desires.
Whatever you've done in the past, however shocked others were, however taboo it was, however twisted or deviant it was, however relaxed your morals...Nothing will shock me - pain, humiliation, watersports, restraint, fisting, caging, ideas, public play, fantasies, oral, anal, role-play, things I can't mention here.
Your Submission -
Your submission to me is a gift and I prize it tremendously, and do not accept it lightly or expect it to come quickly.
However, showing me basic respect is not about submission, but about being polite and courteous - the same as you would be to anyone.
I'm not looking for a passive doormat of a playmate, nor someone I have to struggle with every minute of the day to prove my dominance.
However, when working with me you have already defined the roles we should adopt and it is expected you [at least try] to honour those roles in word and deed - strengthening those roles over time, with communication and work on both sides.
To clarify the Dos -
* Do be straight with me.
* Do be courteous.
* Do talk to me when issues occur.
* Do negotiate with me about what's expected.
* Do accept that we're both human and can both make mistakes.
* Do realise that you are responsible for what's in your profile, which is all I know about you and is how I will deal with you.
* Do think, in advance, what you want and don't want.
* Do communicate.
To clarify the Don'ts -
Don't assume my definition of Sir /sub is the same as yours.
* Don't think that failing to show me basic courtesy and respect is "pushing boundaries" or "being feisty".
* Don't think that my asking about your life or making sure you're ok or not barking orders at you every minute of the day is about domination or submission, it's just basic human-to-human interaction.
* Don't give me any less basic respect or courtesy than you expect from me.
* Don't make me 2nd guess you, and then complain/blame me when I don't read your mind.
* Don't say one thing, when you mean another.
* Don't think the rules don't apply to you.
If you have read this far, why not get in touch by sending me a message. |
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