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stardust13
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Hello there, and thank you for looking at my profile. There's not really anything in a profile that can truly reveal the person underneath it all - but hopefully I can make you all curious enough to explore.
I'm a man who keeps busy and I'm not easily categorized. I'm also a Dominant, and have practiced BDSM to some degree for several years. I enjoy using canes, crops, floggers, hot wax play and such..but I'm more attuned to the mental and emotional act of Dominance. Submission is an offer of trust and power...and I'm seeking to experience that with a submissive woman I may eventually collar, leash, and own as a kind of property, and who would honestly address me as Master. (Submissive men as a distant possibility; I'm not narrow, but I am straight.)
If you are considering this, then know that your personality and outlook on life are most important to me; in those, you should appreciate intellectual, imaginative, and non-usual pursuits, and should have an open mind to new experiences. Perfection in your looks and body is definitely not required, but you must be of generally good health, grooming, and well-being. In the relationship, you should be submissive (obviously), service-oriented, attuned to Master's likes and dislikes, very obedient, and sexually pleasing to Master. A clear idea of your wants beforehand is appreciated, but not absolutely necessary, nor is an exact "match" with my desires; mutual compatability is more important. We'll start as all relationships do - by talking honestly. Don't worry, I don't bite - unless asked nicely. }:-) Eventually, if all goes well and your collar is in place, your choice in all matters will be surrendered. Trust is the key.
"Lifestyle" or 24/7 submission is possible, but be aware that I am happily married, and my wife will be aware of all aspects of our relationship (and may participate, at her discretion; her profile is on this site as stardust13). Most of our contact will be outside my house, as it's rather small. Long Distance/over-the-'Net relationships are also possible, but I'd greatly prefer if there was some possibility of us traveling and meeting each other.
Being bi, a pain slut, and polyamorous are preferred, as you may be ordered by Master to serve others, including my wife, and things may develop in that direction as well. Safe sex/SSC/RACK practiced. Non-smokers definitely preferred.
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Recently sent a message to a female submissive
on this site who sounded quite nice, and well worth my while to speak to, but it was obvious that we were looking for different things in terms of sex, BDSM, and relationships. So I sent a message acknowledging that though we weren't compatible, I wished to speak with her anyway, and perhaps see if she would be interested in attending a 'munch with us sometime, or pursuing some other similar interests together.
The next day, the message was marked "Deleted Unread" in my sent mail.
I think that pretty much sums up, in one action, my problem with the people on this site. I don't care if you are "submissive" or otherwise: if you don't care to treat others with dignity, please don't expect it - and particularly, don't demand it - in return.
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I've found CM thus far a pretty frustrating place. I'd forgotten the usual ratio on such sites (about 8:1 male), which places me on the wrong end of a "buyer's market" - not to mention the desperation of some of these guys and attitude of some of the women, who in combination tend to drive things to the least common denominator.
My wife recently suggested putting together a small 'munch in our neighborhood based on some of the few friends we've made here, and I admit that sounds much better than trying to figure out who people are over a Web site. (A 'munch is a vanilla night out for kinky folk at a local restaurant.) Something to consider...watch this space.
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I keep noticing these pictures off to the right of my screen from AdultFriendFinder or whereever else, invariably of lovely women in various poses reminiscent of Maxim magazine's (in other words, they aren't nude, but may as well be).
I have my doubts about these women, though. First, they're all supposedly in my hometown, and while it's a nice place and has lots of beautiful women, I've never seen any of them - or some of the public backgrounds in some cases - here. And secondly, many of them have their heads cut off. (Presumably by the photograph, and not in real life.)
Now I appreciate a woman with nice breasts, a curvy body, or a cute ass. (I appreciate them a great deal when they are submitting to me and allowing me to do as I wish to their lovely bodies...um, yeah, back on topic.) But when I'm wanting to meet someone, probably the first thing I'm looking at is a woman's face. I like my women to have a head on their shoulders, so to speak, and most of the women I'm corresponding with like to show their heads in a picture. There should be a full person there. (I like looking at the Venus de Milo, but I imagine she'd make a lousy conversationalist.)
So, yes, I kind of doubt the "reality" of these women.
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