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newbie1986

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Nomy
Ladycaner
DreadedRose
askangel
Ok first things first, I am new to BDSM, and have been very curious about it for about about four years ever since I stumbled across the work of Chanta Rose, Thanks to a good friend of mine introduced me to collar me and its great to know I'm not the only one out there.

Ok, as I class myself as a switch, I feel as though this section of the profile should be updated. 80% of the time I will be a sub to people, but if the right woman comes along I will happily dominate her. 

Right, my sub interests include the following; flogging, gags, spanking, verbal humiliation, objectification, queening and footworship.

There are a few things I am curious of and would like to try; more cbt, cross dressing and possibly with the right person some strap on play.

In terms of my more dominate side I am only looking for, female subs or switches. I have no interest in dominating men.
My dream dom fantasy is for the female to be either naked or in underwear tied to a bed, gagged and tickled. Then for some orgasm control, whereby she is allowed to play with herself and has to stop just before orgasm and do that at least five times.
There is one person who is not on here, who i dreamt about doing that to, I told her and she liked the sound of it. So Iu've twisted someone into this lifestyle a little... yay!

Anything else you want to know please feel free to send me a message :)
4/16/2009 1:18:36 PM
I can smile again, anyone who reads this (thats assuming people do) I don't smile. Whenever I go on clinical placements I'm usually smiling. But that doesn't last. Almost two years ago I lost one girl who I really loved she was so cute and made me smile all the time I recall waking up in the morning and just see her smile and she'll always ask me if I was comfy :) When she cheated on me I became so angry anyone who mentioned her name I could resent them for the rest of the day.
My other ex girl friend has manipulated me so many times over money, when I thought she had changed. When I asked her to talk about it she replied she only wanted to talk over msn so she could reply to me. I lost all respect for her.

I now have a date for my graduation ball, an old school friend we met up last week for the first time in 16years, and still got along. I asked her tonight, and she said yes.. I'm not saying something will happen but its made me smile.

As cheesy as it may sound, knowing someoneoutside my family cares makes me smile and happy. Even if that thought is irrational
4/6/2009 3:56:41 AM
I cannot believe how juvenile people can be in these chatrooms, can people learn to grow up?
2/6/2009 3:28:23 AM
toothpaste, until last night the general schema about it is that it has to be used on your mouth.... ha how wrong i was. Me and a friend of mine also on here were having a bit of online fun getting eachother to do humiliating tasks over the webcam. so on one of her turns she told me that i had to go and get some toothpaste and massage it over the head of my penis, now i would say i was curious about cbt until last night, now i think taking it a step at a time i really think i can like it. it hurt so much putting it all on, just washing it off that stung. just if if any one reads this, i daresay most of you would know about the additional use of toothpaste, but if you didnt you do now, and from my point of view, it was brilliant, happily use it again
1/10/2009 6:44:10 AM
I had a lovely, and i mean lovely dream last night of one my ex clinical educators who i fancy dominated me... so nice
12/29/2008 2:39:41 PM
a little something i am uncertain about, does it make me a switch because there is this one person who i could really dominate naturally?
Or is it more like diagnosis e.g. in my case sub, with rare switch tendencies? 
11/8/2008 1:37:31 PM
ive had my first real time experience and i loved it, thank you nomy it was great!
11/7/2008 7:45:46 AM
I'm going to be dominated for the first time this weekend... yahooo!!!!!!!!
jennicares
 
 Age: 20
 TRI CITIES, Washington