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UPDATE: OK, I wrote a longer profile than I planned so here's the bottom line up front: I need a dominant man between 40 and 65 who will tie me tightly and top me (fuck me) intensely. Details below...
I'm a 37 y.o. bisexual guy, never married, no kids. I love women and want to marry a woman someday, but right now I am more motivated to explore sexuality with men. I am on this site primarily to find older Dominant gay/bi men. I am not in a hurry, I will not rush, I am still shy and hesitant about this aspect of my sexuality (in other words, I will not hook up or have sex with you after the first message or even first meeting).
That said, one of my new years resolutions is to make 2014 the horniest, sexiest, most sexually active year of my life if I can find the right Dom/Master/top/lover! ;-)
I have a little bit of experience with men, and have spent years refining my fantasies, so I have learned a few things about myself:
1) I DEEPLY ENJOY INTERCOURSE AS A BOTTOM. For me, this is ultimately what it's all about.
2) I am 100% submissive with men (but that is ONLY in the bedroom...I have a very normal demeanor in daily life).
3) My feet are an extreme erogenous zone. If a partner massages/lotions/touches/kisses my feet, particularly my soles and arches, I can almost orgasm without my penis being touched at all (particularly if I'm tied up). I'm not a foot fetishist with men, meaning I'm not attracted to other men's feet.
4) I crave inescapable bondage with leather cuffs, collars, gags, spreader bars, suspension, tables, sawhorse/fucking bench. Bondage furniture is in a lot of my fantasies. Also open to exploring rope and/or chain.
5) I do not particularly enjoy being stroked (handjob) during intercourse, even if it's "legs up/missionary"; I just like to focus on enjoying the bottoming/receiving.
5) I have an extremely strong (as yet unexplored) fantasy about being watched while having sex, or video recorded or photographed. I even fantasize about being in porn or having sex in front of a whole room of people, or in a crowded sex club.
6) I have a mild fantasy about being spanked/paddled/whipped lightly, but not enough to leave permanent marks.
7) I don't like dirty talk that much, except when it is whispered. Then it is HOT and I like it a lot.
8) I'm not sure, but I may have a latex fetish (wearing it myself during foreplay and sex). The idea is an extreme turn on.
9) I have a deep-seeded fantasy about being the only sub/bottom at a bondage sex party for several Dom men that lasts for hours.
10) a basement dungeon would be an IDEAL place to act out these fantasies
11) I am very cautious and hesitant about exploring this stuff with anyone, I'm not promiscuous, nor do I "hook up".
12) I actually hate the term "bottom" and "bottoming", but there are really no other polite substitutes.
13) I'm not a fan of blindfolds, because I love watching everything happen. I'm not completely opposed to them, but I prefer to watch some/most/all the "action".
14) I get quite turned on by lube...although perhaps my Dom/Top might find it too messy, the wetter and slicker the better!
15) I'm curious about trying sex with a VERY, perhaps even EXTREMELY, well endowed partner at least once.
16) I enjoy nudity.
17) I would not like humiliation or degradation as part of my submission. I hope to be respected for the pleasure and sexual service I provide my lover/Dom/top/Master (I don't consider "bottom", "slave", or "slut" to be negative terms, so I'd be more than OK with those).
18) I don't understand pig/pony/pup play. Not my thing.
19) I'm not a fan of having my nipples played with, based on past experiences anyway.
20) I don't think I'd be a fan of CBT, although I did have a mentor tug on my testes once and enjoyed that.
21) Not interested in scat, piss, or blood.
I would like to talk to people on this site about any/all this stuff. By the way, I want to be clear about something. For me, bondage/kink is foreplay leading to sex. I know that isn't the case for everyone on this site. If you just want bondage without sex, I'm not the sub for you.
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ugh. SO horny tonight. can't stop thinking about how GREAT a real, throbbing, pulsing cock would feel in my lube-drenched ass. ::shrug:: guess this latex plug will have to do for tonight. |
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