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I became a Dom at the age of 18 with an amazing submissive. We had been best friends for years and had gradually come to share some of our fantasies. Neither of us knew, at the time, about BDSM. But together we explored bondage, spanking, whipping, wax play, fire play, body art play, and a lot more. I even lovingly hand-crafted all of the toys to use with my willing sub.
Alas, life changes meant we moved apart and it took me years to realize what I am: A Dom. I've had a lot more experience since then, but only in the last couple of years have I begun to understand more about my true nature as a naturally dominant male. Discovering the whole BDSM community has been an eye opener.
I have very high expectations of myself and others. Fortunately I have the patience and strength to realize my expectations. For me a sub must be willing to devote the energy and effort it takes to achieve more than she ever thought possible - one challenge at a time. For example, a perfect situation would be a sub who wants to pursue a graduate degree. I have guided one sub to her Ph.D and love the focus and work while making the D/s relationship incredibly fun by having a goal in mind. (Please note that I do NOT tutor or otherwise perform the work required to achieve the goal. My role is to insure that the work gets done and that rewards and punishments are applied as needed.)
This requires a lot of trust. Though I do not trust easily. Part of my Dom nature is that my sub must earn my trust just as I must earn hers: through repeatedly demonstrating our capability to meet each others expectations.
You should not by "broken" and looking for a repairman. Also you must have real talent and serious ambition. I have my own successful company after a difficult start in life and I know what it takes to 'make it'. If you have potential and are willing to work hard to learn new things, share incredible experiences, and joyishly celebrate being alive then we may be perfect for each other.
Eventually I hope to find that elusive, stable D/s long term relationship where we show our love for each other in the way that only we can know.
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I've been away from this site for a while. I'm not currently looking for a sub or a partner. I'm stitll working on clearing the cobwebs from the last entanglement, another epic power struggle that ultimately broke apart. Mostly looking for friends to share and discuss anything at all - but especially the lifestyle around the bay area. I recently moved here from SoCal! |
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| Age: 35 |
| Huntington,
West Virginia |
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