I think so many girls on here are wanting to stand out and be special, well you can't be special for everyone.   You CAN be for just one.  

If you try with everyone, and talk dirty, meet and fuck everyone while looking for the right Dom....... You really are just a whore.  

Respect yourself....and you will find a respectful Dom.  He will see that in you and knows you will pass that respect to Him. 

The body follows the mind. Take one you have the other.... Just get the order right.

"Perks".  You are more than the fortunate outcomes of your job or your success.  You are worth more than the material things you say you can offer.

My Dear.....money or status can't hold you at night.  It can't buy trust and honesty.  It can't buy someones heart.

Don't lead with your "perks" when you talk to someone.

Lead with your values.  Be what you want to receive.

BDSM is beautiful and romantic.  I believe that D/s is such a stronger bond than any vanilla can understand. 

It is a safe place to be fully open, honest, and exposed to not only yourself but to another person who has your best interest at heart.  How can you not melt in the hands that sees  your true colors---accepts them--- and knows what you need better than you do?

How can you not want to sweetly---purely---give to a man like that?