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I want to be clear about what I am looking for - in all respects what is essentially a vanilla relationship... with a hidden and occasional kinky core!

I have had vanilla relationships in the past, and like everything in life there are good, bad or even mixed experiences but having wanted to do it for a long time, in my last relationship I was finally brave enough to experiment with a little submission...
Don't mistake me for a naive newbie but it was a little like being a child discovering the secret garden for the first time... I've learnt I don't want to go back to a standard vanilla experience... it's a whole new world of wants & desires...Now not only do I want all the standard relationship stuff but I am also greedy when it comes to sex!
Unfortunately the timing couldn't have been worse and it just didn't work out... so I'm left with a conundrum...it's a brave new world for me and I am not quite sure how to approach it...
Should I look for a nice guy and hope he will instinctively realise that what I really want in bed is for him to tie me down and have his way with me and there are loads more things I want to explore, but safely within the confines of a relationship ...
Or do I need to be more mature and start out looking for a relationship within the pool of people who have already acknowledged they share my sexual desires....
If you have any good advice or if this sounds like something you might be interested please don't be shy.
emogirl
 
 Age: 18
 Dallas, Texas