Someone has been pressing me for an explanation of what I'm looking for, and it bears repeating here. Yes, this is oral sex, which appears at first blush to be a purely vanilla act. But vanilla sexual acts can be performed in the submissive mindset, and makes all the difference here. No, I'm not looking for a blow job. The getting on your knees and keeping an aloof look... the waiting patiently of the explosion... the whore-like indifference when it is over and you leave... this may look to an outsider like it's just a bj, but someone in the lifestyle knows that it's much more. |