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Me:
I do not see my dominance as superiority or arrogance on
my part, nor do I feel I am necessarily more intelligent or wiser. I am
not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body. I seek your
submission only after earning your trust and respect, both qualities
which I embrace in my own character and you will see with time.
Successful and established in a professional vanilla world, I seek
someone who can recognize this success as a cornerstone of qualites you
seek in a Dom.
My dominant style is expressed through
creativity, teaching, mentoring and leading. I am into the
philosophic/psychologic mechanism of this lifestyle. I've researched
and tried to understand these concepts and resultant interactions and
wish to apply them in real life. Just as I do, my submissive has needs
that must be openly communicated and met.
I do believe in some
rules, but they should not be the only boundaries that define your
submission. They should assist you in learning my desires and pleasing
me. Usually just an explanation or short learning situation is
necessary to obtain a certain interaction. I also believe in rituals
that help you to find and reinforce your submissive nature on an
ongoing basis.
Sensuousness is paramount. I do not enjoy heavy
S&M activities. Pain is given to be received as a form of sensuous
stimulation and not purely as a punishment. Heavy S&M is not part
of my dominance. I am comfortable with inflicting light to medium pain,
but not severe (deep bruising, cutting, piercing). Sensuous torture if
you will.
you:
You are sure, strong and proud in your
womanhood. You take care of yourself, emotionally, mentally and
physically. You do not submit as acceptance of inferiority, but from
strength and passion. I seek a submissive born with an instilled desire
to surrender to one. You should "want" to as a result of my knowledge,
skill and the respect you have for me.
The concept of D/s
comes naturally and easily to you. I am best suited for a submissive
who truly and naturally wants to please. You need very little, so
called "training". I am not particularily attracted to a "brat".A
situation of constantly repeating and forcing a behavior (submission)
does not appeal to me. I do not seek the drama of a submissive who
feels she must constantly "test" me. It is not the struggle, but the
surrender as the result of my domination that gives me enjoyment. You
grasp the concept of respect and surrender and can make it happen after
initial learning with little or no additional instructions. You embrace
the surrender gratefully and lovingly.
I seek an intimate and
close relationships, not a play toy. The attraction for both of us is
based on strong mutual respect and chemistry. Our D/s relationship
would not be readily apparent to the unobservant, but we would always
be subtly in the 24-7 mode.
If you can relate to what I seek, I want to hear from you.
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