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My friends say I have an outgoing personality but I have my reserved moments until I am comfortable. I like to exercise and try to work out 3 times a week. I am very loyal to those that I love or care about. That is just who I am. I am a 44 year old woman new to BDSM. I have finally realized what is missing in my life and I am here to find it.
Submissiveness is a part of who I am but not all of who I am. I intend to enjoy my life and would enjoy someone to share that with but if that doesn't happen then so be it. I am not here looking for that. But I'm not looking for one night stand after one night stand either.

What I am looking for takes trust and open communication and that doesn't happen over night. I am new to this so I am looking for someone who is not. I have been with women and thoroughly enjoyed myself but at this time am looking for a Dominant male to fulfill my needs and desires. I'm submissive when it comes to sex. I need someone who can challenge my limits and keep me guessing. I'm hoping to find someone who knows what that means, someone who is the flip side of my coin. My needs are physical but it's also mental for me. I get off on knowing how much my partner is enjoying me. I love sex. Am at my prime and just can't get enough. Of course I need to be attracted to my partner as well. Not just anyone will do. My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for someone who can help me explore my submissiveness. Someone who can take me to that edge and push me a little farther over it than I thought I could go. The mental aspect of sex is as important as the physical and they should compliment one another. The right person will understand this in all of it's depth.
Alliekart
 
 Age: 44
  New York